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Mind sharing your experiences on managing your anger? I am prepared to be flamed and the usual but i find myself getting angry all too often on the roads. Having said that, i am inclined to think that i have faced an undue amount of non-routine incidents n the road (no. of incidents encountered per unit time spent on road) I think i am just being unlucky. Some of such events include a person who continue to sashay on the shoulder of the 1st lane of the road even after horning him or her. I count this event as being non-routine as i don't regard such acts as being normal human behaviour. Okay my point now is, i keep telling myself that there are rules and unofficial rules which are socially observed and i abide to. When i encounter instances where there is a flagrant disregard, i get very worked up and the incident keeps ruminating in my mind. I think it is very unhealthy. I don't want my mind to be consumed by anger eventually. Thanks for reading and hope to read your inputs.

We all have one! The bugger looks like my avatar

My BF is always angry, people drive fast he will drive faster and when people want to filtering he speed up. Scold everyone. How to stop? How to controlling ? Tips?

Malaysia always have the more fun and happening clubs than us. ----- Malaysia's "obedient wives" anger rights groups Reuters Sun, Jun 05, 2011 Tweet KUALA LUMPUR - A Malaysian group urging wives to avoid marital problems by fulfilling their husbands' sexual desires like prostitutes has angered politicians and women's rights groups, the New Straits Times reported on Sunday. The Obedient Wives Club, which was set up by a group of Muslim women, said domestic violence, infidelity and prostitution stemmed from a lack of belief in God and a failure of women to satisfy their husbands. The club's president, Rohaya Mohamed, said it was open to women of all religions and would conduct seminars on how to be a good wife as well as offer marriage counseling. "A man married to a woman who is as good or better than a prostitute in bed has no reason to stray. Rather than allowing him to sin, a woman must do all she can to ensure his desires are met," Rohaya told the newspaper. Females outnumber males in Malaysian higher education institutions, comprising 65 percent of the intake at public universities last year, according to government data. But rights groups say women are still often victims of gender bias, and have protested what they considered the club's demeaning portrayal of women as a cause of social problems. "Abusive men often use women's behaviour as a sick justification, but in the end, their actions are their responsibility," said Ratna Osman, acting executive director at rights group Sisters-in-Islam. "To hinge fidelity, domestic violence and the fulfilment of a husband's responsibilities purely on a wife's capacity to be obedient, stimulate sexual arousal ... is not only demeaning to wives, but to husbands as well," said Women, Family and Community Development Minister Shahrizat Jalil.

As someone without mental support from family/friends, I find myself drowning in a sea of frustration/anger/saddness with only a half-inflated safely vest with no hopes of clear dry land in sight in all 360 degree... If you are like me, how do you vent your frustration/anger/saddness? But...maybe everyone else has some form of mental support either from family or friends. Except me of course. On my facebook I look like the happiest guy ever to my friends...but what they do not know is that sometimes I look at my own facebook or picture, I don't recognise the person that is me in the picture. That picture of me smiling and looking happy...I dont look that way during those times when I think no one is looking. I can only say my prayers every morning hoping the wrongs can be made right. Sorry and pls pardon my whining...I am just tired and sicked of sucking it up but yet I must. I am just doing everything and bearing whatever the world throw at me for the sake of my daughter.

sometimes when you are angry with someone, it helps to sit down and think about the problem. ANY other solutions for anger management please do assist

When you get really pissed on the road either by dumb pedestrians, P-Plate drivers, L-Plate drivers, Taxi, Lorry, new kid drivers ..etc... how do you calm yourself down .. how do you react...