'Such a betrayal of trust': Woman catches maid having sex in master bedroom at Canberra home, 'trespasser' arrested

[DOBIEMKZ]

'Such a betrayal of trust': Woman catches maid having sex in master bedroom at Canberra home, 'trespasser' arrested

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SEPTEMBER 15, 2022  PUBLISHED AT 1:48 PM   By CHERLYNN NG

Stomp

It was the ultimate horror and betrayal of trust for a woman who caught her domestic helper having sex with a man in her home on Sunday (Sept 11).

The man was subsequently arrested by the police in Stomp contributor Shalini's four-room flat at Block 107A Canberra Street.

Shalini, who lives with her husband and four-year-old son, said the maid has been with them for three years and never thought something like this could happen in her own house.

She told Stomp: "Normally, there would be people around constantly. My husband works from home but that day, he had to run some errands and I was visiting the temple.

"When I woke up in the morning and before going out, I told my maid to sleep in since it's her day off. However, she literally slept with another man."

All hell broke loose after Shalini returned home from the temple at around 11.45am.

She recounted: "I stepped into my house after visiting the temple. I noticed that my master bedroom's door was closed and heard some thumping noises coming from there.

"I was appalled when my maid came out apologising to me in Tamil. She kept saying 'Akka (sister), I'm sorry, I'm sorry'.

"I immediately bawled as I knew that there was another person in the room. I saw an unknown man getting dressed and was so devastated when he came out from my master bedroom approximately three minutes later.

"I cried as that was the first emotion I had: Betrayal.

"I held the door as I didn't want them to escape. I was so distressed that I couldn't remember what number to call for the police. I was so shocked, appalled, dumbfounded and trembling."

The Stomp contributor eventually managed to call her husband, who happened to be just five minutes away.

For Shalini, the incident was exceptionally hurtful and shocking because she had always treated her maid "like family".

The domestic helper, who is from India, has every Sunday off and draws a monthly salary of $700.

"My maid had been with me for almost three years and I could not come to believe that this happened in my house," Shalini shared.

"I had trusted her so much all this while. She was good at her work, be it general chores or taking care of my son, like picking him up from school.

"I treated her like family and would even buy her the same clothes. I think I made a mistake there, being too lenient because it's my nature."

Shalini said her maid and the man have been seeing each other for "some time", adding: "I confiscated both their phones and saw countless videos of them being sexually active every week."

She showed Stomp texts between the couple. There were also multiple pictures of them hugging, kissing and behaving intimately.

PHOTO: Stomp

However, Shalini believes that this is the first time her maid has been brazen enough to bring the man home.

She explained: "There are usually people at home all the time, especially in the last two years due to the pandemic.

"My maid usually sleeps in the common room on a mattress. She doesn't enter the master bedroom on normal days. Why couldn't they have gone to a hotel or gotten a room elsewhere?

"Police came and arrested the man for unlawful trespassing. I am grateful that they took swift action instead of meditation and letting him go free.

"I was shocked when the police took out a beautiful pair of silver handcuffs and put it on the man as I was not expecting it."

According to Shalini, the man was taken to the police station. Shalini and her husband also had to go down to give their statements.

The Stomp contributor said: "I booked a flight and sent my maid back home at 8pm on the same day. It was expensive but I didn't care. I just wanted to get rid of her.

"I want to extend my thanks to the police. In the moment when I saw the man being arrested, I felt like a true-blue Singaporean and was glad to be protected by the law.

"I am sharing this because I want people to know that if this happens in your household, you can count on the police. The police are there to help."

In response to a Stomp query, the police said they received a call for assistance at 11.46am and arrested a 31-year-old man for wilful trespass.

Police investigations are ongoing.

Asked what her next steps are or if she plans to get a new domestic helper, Shalini told Stomp: "I am not ready yet as the trauma is still fresh. What happened that day still flashes in my mind.

"It was such a betrayal of trust."

[Mkl22]

Woman was lucky. The trespasser could have turned aggressive and harmed her. 
My friends aunt encountered some thing similar more than 30years ago, when she entered the house. Was a party at the house with a few men and woman. And in the master bedroom lying around too. She screamed and all of them bugged out. maid of course got kicked home the next day. 
the aunt on hindsight said that she should have just left with the kids when she saw them, instead of a confrontation. Who knows what could have happened! 

[Inlinefour]

luckily helper not sleeping with hubby cos she asked her to go to sleep

 

Technically is not wrong to follow employer instruction

 

my friend told me 🙊🙉🙈 

 

maybe the guy tired too 

Just wanted to sleep only 

 

[Throttle2]

Muayhahaha! 

[macrosszero]

Has she burned her bed yet?

[Kopites]

20 minutes ago, Macrosszero said:

Has she burned her bed yet?

Likely to shift out from that apartment. How on earth can someone sleep peacefully thinking this room has been used by maid and lover. 

[macrosszero]

1 minute ago, Kopites said:

Likely to shift out from that apartment. How on earth can someone sleep peacefully thinking this room has been used by maid and lover. 

Then resale property no market liao

[DOBIEMKZ]

44 minutes ago, Mkl22 said:

Woman was lucky. The trespasser could have turned aggressive and harmed her. 
My friends aunt encountered some thing similar more than 30years ago, when she entered the house. Was a party at the house with a few men and woman. And in the master bedroom lying around too. She screamed and all of them bugged out. maid of course got kicked home the next day. 
the aunt on hindsight said that she should have just left with the kids when she saw them, instead of a confrontation. Who knows what could have happened! 

 Party !!! 🤔😮😮😮

[Sosaria]

Why on earth cannot get a short-time hotel room? Sounds like this employer treat the maid well, let her have her off-days, free to go dating.

On the other hand, employer also naive to think that for 3 years the maid will remain sex-less.

[Mahjong74]

1 hour ago, DOBIEMKZ said:

'Such a betrayal of trust': Woman catches maid having sex in master bedroom at Canberra home, 'trespasser' arrested

https://www.asiaone.com/singapore/such-betrayal-trust-woman-catches-maid-having-sex-master-bedroom-canberra-home-trespasser?utm_medium=Social&utm_source=Facebook&fbclid=IwAR2-jnqUrekBexqcuGoVb1tM013w3nPTI3ReRu1AuqB-ITYUXzdhPAcLFBs#Echobox=1663221681

SEPTEMBER 15, 2022  PUBLISHED AT 1:48 PM   By CHERLYNN NG

"Police came and arrested the man for unlawful trespassing. I am grateful that they took swift action instead of meditation and letting him go free.

"I was shocked when the police took out a beautiful pair of silver handcuffs and put it on the man as I was not expecting it."

 

@DOBIEMKZ 

Lesson learnt:

1. Go Hotel to have Sex. 

2. Nowadays Police like meditation to release stress.

3. This woman seems to be into SM. Only people who love or into SM will describe " a beautiful pair of silver handcuffs". 🤣

 

[DOBIEMKZ]

1 hour ago, Macrosszero said:

Has she burned her bed yet?

Put Carousell.

[PSP415]

14 minutes ago, Mahjong74 said:

@DOBIEMKZ 

Lesson learnt:

1. Go Hotel to have Sex. 

2. Nowadays Police like meditation to release stress.

3. This woman seems to be into SM. Only people who love or into SM will describe " a beautiful pair of silver handcuffs". 🤣

 

I was actually tickled by the handcuffs description too.

Think she meant it was a beautiful sight (guy not getting away lightly) to see handcuffs produced.

Or perhaps it is really beautiful, new and shiny cos seldom or not used yet. 

😂😂😂

Edited September 15, 2022 by PSP415

[DOBIEMKZ]

16 minutes ago, Mahjong74 said:

@DOBIEMKZ 

Lesson learnt:

1. Go Hotel to have Sex. 

2. Nowadays Police like meditation to release stress.

3. This woman seems to be into SM. Only people who love or into SM will describe " a beautiful pair of silver handcuffs". 🤣

 

SM....🤔🤔🤔

Singing and Meditating while sexing?

[Shibadog]

can't wait for study pods to be installed at void deck

 

[Atonchia]

1 hour ago, Mahjong74 said:

@DOBIEMKZ 

Lesson learnt:

1. Go Hotel to have Sex. 

2. Nowadays Police like meditation to release stress.

3. This woman seems to be into SM. Only people who love or into SM will describe " a beautiful pair of silver handcuffs". 🤣

 

I suspect the editor is the one into SM. 

Probably looking intensely at the photo of police baton and taser.

[Loki]

Actually why should the man be arrested?  He was let into the house by someone who lives there.  Not as if he broke in

[PSP415]

24 minutes ago, Loki said:

Actually why should the man be arrested?  He was let into the house by someone who lives there.  Not as if he broke in

Unauthorised by the house owner. Maid did not get permission either so no count. 

[Tianmo]

Common lah. 

Maid also is human, her boyfriend also is human.  They also got a mind of their own, have thoughts, got feeling. 

I think the most important thing, and the first thing AI once can build a "real" person, is to make a robot maid.