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Please Do Not Forget About Your Kid(s)...

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Victor68

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The parents did not leave together. Possible that one parent thought the other has the boy. Tragic oversight.

 

RIP little one

Communication, when I leaves don't he/she remind the other party to take are of the child still there? Well all these.are too late. Parents of young kids must learn from this event.

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Atonchia

Atonchia

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something not right in the thread title, they did remember to bring him along to the office but forget to bring him back [sweatdrop]

This type of things can happen if parents used to have one of the sibling be at childcare, or at grandparents place.

 

So parent could have been so engrossed in thoughts that thinking younger one at anothwr location.

 

Especially if both kids arrive separate timing.

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Lala81

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This type of things can happen if parents used to have one of the sibling be at childcare, or at grandparents place.

 

So parent could have been so engrossed in thoughts that thinking younger one at anothwr location.

 

Especially if both kids arrive separate timing.

 

Yeah...

It's probably cos their kids don't go to the office regularly.

So your automatic system takes over, especially if you are thinking about something else. I mean locking up your office, i wouldn't normally associate checking if anyone is still around since they were the only ones there over the weekend.

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i heard from an inside group that the mother appears to blames the boy(dead) for his actions.

 

and many of her friends as distancing themselves from her after reading about the comment.

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Spurman

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This afternoon kopi talk about this case. Sad.

 

Din know the full details till read this article in mcf.

 

Poor kid. He should have really panicked he kena left behind. And this tragedy. Real shocking and sad.

 

And yes. Dun hamtam the parents. I believe they r already scarred. Those 10mins of forgetfullness will haunt them forever liao. Sad sad.

 

Hopefully their 3 other children grow up fine and together they support their parents and overcome this grieve

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Lala81

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i heard from an inside group that the mother appears to blames the boy(dead) for his actions.

 

and many of her friends as distancing themselves from her after reading about the comment.

 

A sudden death is really very traumatic to the family members. Most people won't understand until it has happened once in their family. It's very different from an expected death from illness or old age.

 

When someone in your family dies unexpectedly. All kinds of weird comments/statements will come out one lah especially over the first few days.

Not everyone will really hold it together. Especially if it's your own child.

 

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A sudden death is really very traumatic to the family members. Most people won't understand until it has happened once in their family. It's very different from an expected death from illness or old age.

 

When someone in your family dies unexpectedly. All kinds of weird comments/statements will come out one lah especially over the first few days.

Not everyone will really hold it together. Especially if it's your own child.

Thats true bro.

 

The mom is grieving and need to process through it. It would take times.

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Pocus

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i heard from an inside group that the mother appears to blames the boy(dead) for his actions.

 

and many of her friends as distancing themselves from her after reading about the comment.

 

It's sounds like one of the 5 stages of Grief:

1) Denial

2) Anger

3) Bargaining

4) Depression/Guilt

5) Acceptance

 

Probably at stage 2 or 3 now.

sadly, 4 will be the hardest and longest journey of grief...hope they say strong....

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Atonchia

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It's sounds like one of the 5 stages of Grief:

1) Denial

2) Anger

3) Bargaining

4) Depression/Guilt

5) Acceptance

 

Probably at stage 2 or 3 now.

sadly, 4 will be the hardest and longest journey of grief...hope they say strong....

So True

No good mum will want that to happen to any kid.

 

Having 100% guilt on her own is difficult. Its mote like distribution of the emotional...

 

Hope the family heal soon.

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Dleodleo

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Newspaper reported that, When it was time to leave, the boy's father switched off the lights in the office and they drove home with his older brother. It was only when the couple arrived at the carpark of their home did they realise that they had left their son behind.

 

This is sad, such accident could have been prevented. Anyway, RIP.

Unbelivable! 3 people can forget about the boy together and they could lock the door and took the office lift without realising it.

 

RIP to the poor little boy and deepest condolences to the boy's family. They mudt have felt guilty abd sad. :(

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