Getting a foreign wife

[Jman888]

you have already had your thoughts, next is to narrow down one or two idea locations for retirement and decide if girls from those location make a good wife. You have to be aware of a few things.

1. the girl who marry you, after staying here for a few years, may not want to go back to live village life with you any more.

2. the location that you choose, has to be a laid-back place and has no chance to be redeveloped by the local government too rapidly, otherwise, when you retire 20 or 30 years later, the place may no longer be a village.

3. you need to also be prepared that your plan may change by then, especially when you have children in future, whether you want to unroot your family and bring your children there ? while you may be able to enjoy a carefree village life, how about your children's education? are they able to adapt to village life like you are ?

So all considered, you need to have a plan within a plan.

 

 

of course, other than location, make sure you choose a sui sui girl to be your wife.

I think the upcoming concern will be how good is the medical care in that country if you are going to settle down there for good.

[Ysc3]

bro you generalise la... not all are like that.

 

depends on the crowd you mix with.

 

the crowd my wife mixes around all very responsible women/mothers ... i think the only one that can't cook in the group is my wife.

 

i have met most of my wife's friends and their families ... and they are nice people with happy families. they will organize get-togethers every now and then to stay in touch. most of them are very down to earth .... but there are also a few who act slightly posh.

[Dleodleo]

can continue fighting?

 

i have craving for some popcorn

 

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Wahaha. Old liao cannot fight later bones break

[Ender]

 

 

you must have heard ... they say many hainanese in Kovan ... ?

Lak kor jio.. 6 miles  junction. That's where I grew up.  But even then the primary School I went nearby, I am the only Hainanese.   

[Ysc3]

Lak kor jio.. 6 miles  junction. That's where I grew up.  But even then the primary School I went nearby, I am the only Hainanese.   

 

i spent some time in chap-kor ... or jalan tiga ratus .... all hainanese - 40 years ago !

[Dleodleo]

But in my life, the classes I attend, the department I worked with, the tour group I travelled, it always I am the only hainanese. So the sense of minority for is there for me. Only once I had a hainanese classmate in sec 1. Still keep in touch til today. He happens to be happily married to a Filipno, and stay in Thailand as a pastor/missionary, running a free school for refugees.

Me too. I also hv one and only hainanese classmates in my secretarial course.

 

Perhaps due to our minority, I feel v happy when I find fellow hainanese friends.

 

I find hainanese very supportive of each othet and helpful to each other.

 

 

Aiyo better dun talk liao.. Later this become a hainanese cum foreign brides thread.

[Kusje]

Wah. You all wanna meet hainanese can join the hainanese society leh.

 

But careful not to get punched

[Dleodleo]

like i mentioned earlier ... no textbook process to getting PR.

 

i am guessing maybe they just throw the names into a raffle box and the draw the PR winner !!

 

anyway, in my case, my wife got her social pass extended with the help of the ICA officer ... and that gave her just enough time to get her LTVP. Next she applied for a WP and the WP superseded her LTVP.

 

her first application for PR was rejected when she was 3 mths pregnant ... we did not know then and did not include that in the declaration.

 

however, i appealed two months later with this info and surprisingly, two months after my son was born, we received a letter saying she got her PR !

 

*my wife not high flyer ... english one piece one piece ... and worked as part-time sales assistant with work permit.

 

 

you must have heard ... they say many hainanese in Kovan ... ?

I think also depend on the husband's education. My relative's wife from hainan island also got PR few weeks after giving birth.

 

Last time my relatives stayed in Kaki Bukit, they called it Hainan Village. I suspect it is located at the current Lor Ah Soo cos I saw a signage at the hawker centr : Hainan Village Food Centre.

[Dleodleo]

got mei? Or u were using another nick? Seriously i cant remember! The only on going freeze is with my ex-gf. Last time no quarrel but always have that icy moment so we separated, 10 yrs ago we got into contact and quarrelled......last month met up after 20 over yrs.....quarrel during sms.....she still damn pretty and hot at 48.....only my wife can beat her in term of look!ððð

[Ysc3]

I think also depend on the husband's education. My relative's wife from hainan island also got PR few weeks after giving birth.

 

i only got 3 "o " level passes ... english, chinese and  RK ! 

 

i am sure i was not in the equation....

[Mockngbrd]

Wah. You all wanna meet hainanese can join the hainanese society leh.

 

But careful not to get punched ð

They do what? Make chicken rice?

[Dleodleo]

i only got 3 "o " level passes ... english, chinese and RK !

 

i am sure i was not in the equation....

Wat is RK?

[Ysc3]

Wat is RK?

 

religious knowledge ... LOL !!

[kdash]

got mei? Or u were using another nick? Seriously i cant remember! The only on going freeze is with my ex-gf. Last time no quarrel but always have that icy moment so we separated, 10 yrs ago we got into contact and quarrelled......last month met up after 20 over yrs.....quarrel during sms.....she still damn pretty and hot at 48.....only my wife can beat her in term of look!ððð

bro... your wife reading this right... haha...

My father like to say å½é注å®, for all that happen it is fated.

 

If you fated to get local wife you get it and the other way around. If you finally go to the marraige arrangement company. It may also be fate.

 

One of my friend use to tell me what kind of girl he like. Must be sophiscated and whatever. End up, he came across this tomboy and also married happilly..... å½åãHaha.

i'm sure our spouses are not what we initially expected to be like...

 

because... they are... better! hahaha...

not really rich lah ...

 

one couple is the guy is a property agent ... who told the girl not to accept dowry coz his mom cannot afford !!?? WTF ?? then told the girl to convince her parents to sell their flat through him. lucky never fall for his trap. KNNCCB MF !!

 

the other couple, the guy used to own a pub ... but business failed soon after ... and then became a manual worker.

waa this property agent guy is scamming the girl!

Marry for what?

 

One marry to cheat for a sale of a property of the in laws.

 

Another marry then got looked down by wife and get cast away.

 

 

 

 

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classic song, like!

[kdash]

this one too private for me to know liow .... but the guys were reportedly seen intimately hugging the unidentified women.

if got hug then likely go all the way liao. anyway girls are very jealous and will not want a man who strays, especially just before/after getting married.

[Evillusion]

bro... your wife reading this right... haha...

i'm sure our spouses are not what we initially expected to be like...

 

because... they are... better! hahaha...

waa this property agent guy is scamming the girl!

classic song, like!

of course she knows of my past relationships......Better tell them then she finds out on her own!

[BanCoe]

of course she knows of my past relationships......Better tell them then she finds out on her own!

So she knows your OMV is very high

[Fuelsaver]

bro you generalise la... not all are like that.

Can't blame me for that

 

If u think about y they come here n most prefer to marry folks who r senior, it means they know about our cpf withdrawal scheme

 

I've seen so many in my neighborhood

 

I understand ppl want a better life for coming here but I don't appreciate those who marry senior folk when they r young enuf to be their daughter or granddaughter. Clearly their motive is not out of love n commitment