Chowyunfatt Turbocharged November 25, 2016 Share November 25, 2016 And on top of 4-5k. Still need at least 5-6k for saving into retirement. Have you consider that and some other saving for rainy day? I guess what your main concern is actually financial stability ... That is not wrong ... But, that is not all ... Make no mistake, there is much more to it ... You need to ask yourself this ... Do you trust her? ... If you have doubts, you should clarify with her ... Tell her your what you feel ... This will give her a glimpse of your thoughts and a chance for her to share what she feels about this ... Go home see this then keyi I "SARP" ... ↡ Advertisement 3 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Throttle2 Supersonic November 25, 2016 Share November 25, 2016 I really dont understand the views of youngsters nowadays. I belong to the days of the knights in shining armor. Our fathers before us work base on that formula. Am not saying that there isnt another formula. Think of the opposite. Your wife is working as hard or harder than you. She can contribute to the finances , hack lets say she buys the car full cash in your name. But she has no time to take care of children herself She has Little time for you She is more stressed up than you She has loads of engagements and appointments outside to see to. If you need to come here and ask about this, You are simply not ready to be a husband TS, thats the bottomline. Wait a few years, grow up first. 10 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lala81 Hypersonic November 25, 2016 Share November 25, 2016 That is the ultimate... whenever I meet big shots or ceos who wear a Casio or don't even wear a watch, I'm like Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Enye Hypersonic November 25, 2016 Share November 25, 2016 with no maid and three kids and a bo lui husband, i think my wife prefers to work instead Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hydrocarbon Turbocharged November 25, 2016 Share November 25, 2016 err...we spoke abt these, and not the best place to meet a gal Where got pub / bar not the best place to meet a girl? Those are the best places to meet girls! + Club + NYE parties.... Just not the sort to bring home and marry, maybe... =P 6 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Throttle2 Supersonic November 25, 2016 Share November 25, 2016 maybe still have the kampong mentality from the old generation, men go out make money, wife stay home and take care of everything. I think you got it a bit wrong. It is simply a different way of splitting the responsibilities by specialising. Again, i stress there is no perfect formula. So if we are looking for that perfect formula, dont bother Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Enye Hypersonic November 25, 2016 Share November 25, 2016 I really dont understand the views of youngsters nowadays. I belong to the days of the knights in shining armor. Our fathers before us work base on that formula. Am not saying that there isnt another formula. Think of the opposite. Your wife is working as hard or harder than you. She can contribute to the finances , hack lets say she buys the car full cash in your name. But she has no time to take care of children herself She has Little time for you She is more stressed up than you She has loads of engagements and appointments outside to see to. If you need to come here and ask about this, You are simply not ready to be a husband TS, thats the bottomline. Wait a few years, grow up first. ah...now i see the connection vintage thinking vintage watches Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Throttle2 Supersonic November 25, 2016 Share November 25, 2016 with no maid and three kids and a bo lui husband, i think my wife prefers to work instead Thats not a wrong formula. But whats wrong is that you should stop putting the 70 pieces of paper under your pillow. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Staff69 Hypersonic November 25, 2016 Share November 25, 2016 if i marry her i stay home 13 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vid Hypersonic November 25, 2016 Share November 25, 2016 That is the ultimate... whenever I meet big shots or ceos who wear a Casio or don't even wear a watch, I'm like Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wyfitms Twincharged November 25, 2016 Share November 25, 2016 I don't wear a watch. I only poke poke look look at my friends' IWCs, Rolexes, Panerais etc lol. that's good, means u are a practical man Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Genes 6th Gear November 25, 2016 Share November 25, 2016 I guess what your main concern is actually financial stability ... That is not wrong ... But, that is not all ... Make no mistake, there is much more to it ... You need to ask yourself this ... Do you trust her? ... If you have doubts, you should clarify with her ... Tell her your what you feel ... This will give her a glimpse of your thoughts and a chance for her to share what she feels about this ... I "SARP" ... Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wyfitms Twincharged November 25, 2016 Share November 25, 2016 I'm no ceo lah.... but I know where I'm big [laugh] no need to be so humble when there are 10 feet long monsters in MCF Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tianmo Hypersonic November 25, 2016 Share November 25, 2016 I really dont understand the views of youngsters nowadays. I belong to the days of the knights in shining armor. Our fathers before us work base on that formula. Am not saying that there isnt another formula. Think of the opposite. Your wife is working as hard or harder than you. She can contribute to the finances , hack lets say she buys the car full cash in your name. But she has no time to take care of children herself She has Little time for you She is more stressed up than you She has loads of engagements and appointments outside to see to. If you need to come here and ask about this, You are simply not ready to be a husband TS, thats the bottomline. Wait a few years, grow up first. Totally agree!!!!... ...........but no power for you liao.......muayhahahahaha..................... Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vid Hypersonic November 25, 2016 Share November 25, 2016 no need to be so humble when there are 10 feet long monsters in MCF Not monsterS lah... there is only one such here. [laugh] Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tianmo Hypersonic November 25, 2016 Share November 25, 2016 if i marry her FB_IMG_1479280309529.jpg i stay home 2 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mockngbrd Supersonic November 25, 2016 Share November 25, 2016 (edited) go home see this non-working girl also keyi Edited November 25, 2016 by Mockngbrd Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wyfitms Twincharged November 25, 2016 Share November 25, 2016 (edited) I really dont understand the views of youngsters nowadays. I belong to the days of the knights in shining armor. Our fathers before us work base on that formula. Am not saying that there isnt another formula. Speaking of youngsters and knights what would u do if your daughter (say, uni age) is dating another uni boy and the boy always insist on going dutch (meals, movies etc) Edited November 25, 2016 by Wyfitms ↡ Advertisement Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
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