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Lol...read this morning on fb, Jin funny but I don't like to wait too, punctuality is a virtue

 

My time is precious so is other people time

 

Don't waste other people time

 

Love can fade with time too

 

If Ts is suddenly out of job, financials can cause relationship/family breakdown

 

Then I refer them to the vows they both will be taking, It just whether they intend to keep it.

 

To Bridegroom

 

Will you, __________________ take this woman ______________ to be your wedded wife, to live together in the legal estate of matrimony? Will you love her, comfort her, honour and keep her in sickness and in health and forsaking all others, be faithful to her, so long as you both shall live?

 

Answer: I will

 

To Bride

 

Will you, _________________ take this man _________________ to be your wedded husband, to live together in the ligal estate of matrimony? Will you love him, comfort him, honour and keep him in sickness and in health and forsaking all others, be faithful to him, so long as you both shall live?

 

Answer: I will

 

 

 

Marriage leh....... not buying a Note 7 that can be recalled and still get full refund.

 

 

 

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Then I refer them to the vows they both will be taking, It just whether they intend to keep it.

 

To Bridegroom

 

Will you, __________________ take this woman ______________ to be your wedded wife, to live together in the legal estate of matrimony? Will you love her, comfort her, honour and keep her in sickness and in health and forsaking all others, be faithful to her, so long as you both shall live?

 

Answer: I will

 

To Bride

 

Will you, _________________ take this man _________________ to be your wedded husband, to live together in the ligal estate of matrimony? Will you love him, comfort him, honour and keep him in sickness and in health and forsaking all others, be faithful to him, so long as you both shall live?

 

Answer: I will

 

 

 

Marriage leh....... not buying a Note 7 that can be recalled and still get full refund.

 

 

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Love and hate are just two different extremes of your emotional state.

 

Philosophically, Love only exists because of the inherent nature of living beings to want to pass on their DNA to the next generation. Whether it's building relationships in a group for survival or mating with a different gender to procreate or care for your young (if you Leave religious beliefs out of it).

 

If you say love is self sustaining like a plant, then surely you have to believe in the need for good soil, adequate water, lack of weeds and pests for love to flower...

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this girl win liao

marry already no need to work

travel around the world

wear the most beautiful clothes and eat the best food

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Sounds like she's got everything covered water tight...

 

1 query. Back pain means cannot piak piak?

 

i believe there are positions that are back pain friendly............ [:p]  [laugh]  [laugh]

 

But Pregnancy mayb quite troublesome........... [:(]

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Wan to show us some examples?

 

1st you must make sure no one give me warning...................2nd you need to provide me a partner/s...............3rd no beedeo or photo taking..........4th limited to 2 views per session............and silents when work in progress.......... [:p]  [laugh]  [laugh]

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curious. What does she do at home all day?

 

For someone who makes 12k, the wife can still spend quite a fair bit but for someone making 4k, that's gotta be tough.

 

btw, chio or not? :blink: If she ain't chio, I don't think your friend would have been so stupid? But then again, if she is super chio, she would have gone after our 12k per month TS instead of your friend

The worst thing is she not chio at all

 

 

Yeah, friend is blinded. Sigh. Oh well that's his life.

 

That's why I always tell ppl to open eyes and be smarter.

 

U go steady with someone, better observe everything abt this person and the family background.

 

In marriage, u r also marrying the family. Whatever problems the family has, it will become your problems.

 

Yes, I do have some more friends who are on this situation.

 

There is one friend also same. Wife doesn't wan kids and not interested to work. But at least she will do some contract work for few months and then stop, rest and then find contract job again. In laws are on pension scheme. So no financial burden whatsoever.

 

Friend go overseas posting, wife will just follow and take care of him. And she's not stupid person. Quite good academically, degree holder and was a probation officer. This one not considered as a liability.

 

If the future in law family is in a mess with lots of problems, better don't marry that person.

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No matter how smart you are, no matter how big you open

 

your eyes, you will marry the one you are fated to.

 

Whether you are happy or not will depend on the good

 

karma you did in your life. I did a lot of good things so I

 

have a good wife, I also did a lot of bad things and that's

 

why I got the MIL I did.

 

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this girl win liao

marry already no need to work

travel around the world

wear the most beautiful clothes and eat the best food

 

You think her role easy? The amount of PR she has to do is more than anyone can imagine.

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this girl win liao

marry already no need to work

travel around the world

wear the most beautiful clothes and eat the best food

 

Princess Diana had the same deal...

You think her role easy? The amount of PR she has to do is more than anyone can imagine.

 

Pple holiday overseas, topless photo also kana printed out on newspaper  -_-

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The worst thing is she not chio at all

 

 

Yeah, friend is blinded. Sigh. Oh well that's his life.

 

That's why I always tell ppl to open eyes and be smarter.

 

U go steady with someone, better observe everything abt this person and the family background.

 

In marriage, u r also marrying the family. Whatever problems the family has, it will become your problems.

 

Yes, I do have some more friends who are on this situation.

 

There is one friend also same. Wife doesn't wan kids and not interested to work. But at least she will do some contract work for few months and then stop, rest and then find contract job again. In laws are on pension scheme. So no financial burden whatsoever.

 

Friend go overseas posting, wife will just follow and take care of him. And she's not stupid person. Quite good academically, degree holder and was a probation officer. This one not considered as a liability.

 

If the future in law family is in a mess with lots of problems, better don't marry that person.

Wow about extreme lah. Family for problem don't marry her? My suggestion don't need to ditch her. Co-habit. Sign cert after her problem resolved.
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Wow about extreme lah. Family for problem don't marry her? My suggestion don't need to ditch her. Co-habit. Sign cert after her problem resolved.

 

yeah family got problem, this one can sort out.

Person got problem, then other partner has to suffer lor. Just whether u feel it's worth it.

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Rather than you worrying about whether she work or rot at home.

 

You better worry about how you can maintain a lifestyle that require 8K to sustain.

 

Some peeps with families - 3/4 kids in row and surviving happily with only 2-3k. 

 

Change your life first; before you include "her" into yours. Don't sabo her life if you can't deliver.

 

 

Why do I say this? It is to tell yourself do you live for yourself or you live for her? If happiness is not in the cards whenever you think of this matter ... forget about it. Let her dump you, you dump her ... just move on.

 

Money should never be an option when it comes to happiness.

Happiness can never be paid by money as an added option.

 

You either farking happy with her or you don't. Simple .. why drag your 8K, 12K into it? 

 

:mellow:

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Rather than you worrying about whether she work or rot at home.

 

You better worry about how you can maintain a lifestyle that require 8K to sustain.

 

Some peeps with families - 3/4 kids in row and surviving happily with only 2-3k.

 

Change your life first; before you include "her" into yours. Don't sabo her life if you can't deliver.

 

 

Why do I say this? It is to tell yourself do you live for yourself or you live for her? If happiness is not in the cards whenever you think of this matter ... forget about it. Let her dump you, you dump her ... just move on.

 

Money should never be an option when it comes to happiness.

Happiness can never be paid by money as an added option.

 

You either farking happy with her or you don't. Simple .. why drag your 8K, 12K into it?

 

:mellow:

Because no money no honey

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Ya quite chio. Then reach Seoul realise kenna bluff... Girls on the street mostly buang one

 

You must be damn good looking to say the girls on the street mostly buang one!

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