Kyrios Turbocharged February 1, 2015 Share February 1, 2015 As much as I sometimes envy my friends who have families and everyday post facebook photos of where they have brought their wifey and kids for lunch, breakfast and dinner, I guess the threat of losing to the women's charter is more than enough to put me off marriage..for now..I am in my mid thirties but wifeless.... if lets say I am retrenched from my job, I just let go of my car..maybe work in a foodcourt as a dishwasher but still can get by..cant imagine doing this with a hungry wife and kids...is being single a good or bad thing? I am not sure...only time will tell For now my parents are complaining I am not extending the family surname line and not giving them a grandchild... ↡ Advertisement 1 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Celicar Turbocharged February 1, 2015 Share February 1, 2015 As much as I sometimes envy my friends who have families and everyday post facebook photos of where they have brought their wifey and kids for lunch, breakfast and dinner, I guess the threat of losing to the women's charter is more than enough to put me off marriage..for now..I am in my mid thirties but wifeless.... if lets say I am retrenched from my job, I just let go of my car..maybe work in a foodcourt as a dishwasher but still can get by..cant imagine doing this with a hungry wife and kids...is being single a good or bad thing? I am not sure...only time will tell For now my parents are complaining I am not extending the family surname line and not giving them a grandchild... To let rest of your life be determined by just women's charter is.... 5 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mockngbrd Supersonic February 1, 2015 Share February 1, 2015 Will Gahmen go kaypo kaypo the company? 1 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kyrios Turbocharged February 1, 2015 Share February 1, 2015 To let rest of your life be determined by just women's charter is.... Well you never know..marry a wrong woman and...oh well life is just mysterious.. 1 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hydrocarbon Turbocharged February 1, 2015 Share February 1, 2015 (edited) yup.....they will be no more men in white after a divorce......my close friend kana big time by Shariah court when he divorced. 80% of sale proceed of flat go to ex eventhough she committed adultery and their daughter vouched in court she saw her mummy going out with a guy. My friend won custody of their daughter (she didnt want to be with her mum) and they ended up with no roof over their heads. The court even threaten my friend with jail term for contempt as he had said something crass to the preceding judge. They stayed with his parents until he saved enough to buy a 3 room flat. My friend only fault....he slapped his ex after he found out that the wife was playing punk. Wow, if that's the only thing he did wrong, I'm sorry for your friend. Having to go through such crap and still be screwed in such a manner. As much as I sometimes envy my friends who have families and everyday post facebook photos of where they have brought their wifey and kids for lunch, breakfast and dinner, I guess the threat of losing to the women's charter is more than enough to put me off marriage..for now..I am in my mid thirties but wifeless.... if lets say I am retrenched from my job, I just let go of my car..maybe work in a foodcourt as a dishwasher but still can get by..cant imagine doing this with a hungry wife and kids...is being single a good or bad thing? I am not sure...only time will tell For now my parents are complaining I am not extending the family surname line and not giving them a grandchild... Well, you can always adopt.. I know it wouldn't be your blood, but does that matter if you treat the kid well, and he treats you well / respect you? *Edit: I'm not sure if single father / mother or single person can adopt. Sorry. Edited February 1, 2015 by Hydrocarbon 1 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
2BDriver Hypersonic February 1, 2015 Share February 1, 2015 Well you never know..marry a wrong woman and...oh well life is just mysterious..Bro Kyrios, Be optimistic, my opinion is one who live in good moral values will discard materialism. Hope you trust me and having a loving companion. Regards. 4 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Super7 Turbocharged February 1, 2015 Share February 1, 2015 If not mistaken... shanmugam was divorced n remarried. Still promoted to minister level Next:- Can a divorcee become PM / President? [confused] 1 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Super7 Turbocharged February 1, 2015 Share February 1, 2015 the maid more.....*ahem*...*ahem*........sorry...sorry....didnt mean to be rude to the injured! She is must likely recovering from her injuries now, needs lots of encouragement and TLC... what are you waiting for?? Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Evillusion Supersonic February 1, 2015 Share February 1, 2015 Wow, if that's the only thing he did wrong, I'm sorry for your friend. Having to go through such crap and still be screwed in such a manner. Well, you can always adopt.. I know it wouldn't be your blood, but does that matter if you treat the kid well, and he treats you well / respect you? *Edit: I'm not sure if single father / mother or single person can adopt. Sorry. well...to say the least.....we were more on breaking the religious law if you know what i mean.....we were never known to be womenizers but in the religious court it carry a lot of weight as we are the leaders in the family. She is must likely recovering from her injuries now, needs lots of encouragement and TLC... what are you waiting for?? dowan lar......scared he comebark for revenge😥😥😥 1 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hydrocarbon Turbocharged February 1, 2015 Share February 1, 2015 well...to say the least.....we were more on breaking the religious law if you know what i mean.....we were never known to be womenizers but in the religious court it carry a lot of weight as we are the leaders in the family. Not too sure with the Shariah court / law stuff, but yeah, I get what you mean. Hope your friend is in a better place now.. All the best to him and his daughter.. =D 1 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Evillusion Supersonic February 1, 2015 Share February 1, 2015 Not too sure with the Shariah court / law stuff, but yeah, I get what you mean. Hope your friend is in a better place now.. All the best to him and his daughter.. =D his doing fine....thank you. Initially he was diagnosed with depression and was even not allowed to carry his arms for his ns police reservist duties......now everything is fine and he is helping out his family's business. His daughter is in poly now and doesnt look for or talked about her mom. If not mistaken... shanmugam was divorced n remarried. Still promoted to minister leveli can only find post about his Japanese wife.....nothing about any other wife. 1 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
keanie Turbocharged February 1, 2015 Share February 1, 2015 As much as I sometimes envy my friends who have families and everyday post facebook photos of where they have brought their wifey and kids for lunch, breakfast and dinner, I guess the threat of losing to the women's charter is more than enough to put me off marriage..for now..I am in my mid thirties but wifeless.... if lets say I am retrenched from my job, I just let go of my car..maybe work in a foodcourt as a dishwasher but still can get by..cant imagine doing this with a hungry wife and kids...is being single a good or bad thing? I am not sure...only time will tell For now my parents are complaining I am not extending the family surname line and not giving them a grandchild... Do not dread. Mid thirties and not getting married is common nowadays. As long as you married down is a safe bet as that gal will probably go thru thick and thin with you. To be borned as a man has it advantage. You can choose n marry at a later age but woman is not that lucky. You still have the option to marry foreign brides which is very common. I knew of frens married Vietnamese girls n most of them very happy n with kids. So, be optimistic 2 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
keanie Turbocharged February 1, 2015 Share February 1, 2015 If not mistaken... shanmugam was divorced n remarried. Still promoted to minister level He is an exception. He n Davinder are proclaimed d best twin legal counsels. d cabinet needs a tokong legal counsel with international calibre with d impending retirement of Jayakumar. 1 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Evillusion Supersonic February 1, 2015 Share February 1, 2015 Do not dread. Mid thirties and not getting married is common nowadays. As long as you married down is a safe bet as that gal will probably go thru thick and thin with you. To be borned as a man has it advantage. You can choose n marry at a later age but woman is not that lucky. You still have the option to marry foreign brides which is very common. I knew of frens married Vietnamese girls n most of them very happy n with kids. So, be optimisticya...true...my eldest bro married at 40 with a girl 13 yrs his junior.....my twin married at 45 with a girl 13 yrs his junior.....i married at 27 to a girl 5 yrs my junior. One thing though....now my son is going 22 while their eldest is still in primary school.....got good and bad in both instances. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tigerwoods Turbocharged February 1, 2015 Share February 1, 2015 Well you never know..marry a wrong woman and...oh well life is just mysterious.. Well, I said before : Marriage is like a Bed of Roses... with Thorns, it takes a lifetime to trim away the thorns. Frankly you will never know how the future plays out. Why feat what the future brings when you are the one craving it out ? Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tigerwoods Turbocharged February 1, 2015 Share February 1, 2015 I only blame this horrific incident to this guy : Divorce Lawyer. 4 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Toothiewabbit Supersonic February 1, 2015 Share February 1, 2015 Well you never know..marry a wrong woman and...oh well life is just mysterious.. you make it sound so complicated....its not la. IMHO, men can afford to settle down at a later age (how late? to each his own). Enjoy your singlehood while you can. Meantime, get to know oneself better, be a better person, know what you want in a life companion, settle down, make the marriage work, stick with her for life, for better or for worse, in every sense of word. The end 5 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mockngbrd Supersonic February 1, 2015 Share February 1, 2015 Now I get older I find it easier to sian xmm. ↡ Advertisement Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
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