Children playing w scooter, cycling inside shopping mall

[Porker]

How do u feel when u come across above in a mall regardless of the human traffic?

 

Do u think it is ok to allow ur kids to do it?

 

If u allow, did u consider the hazard ur kid pose to others??

 

Lastly, wld u broach this to the parent who allow if u encounter it?

 

Slap the parents. Poor discipline is the reason for uncouth and inconsiderate behavior

[Babyt]

Only trolley allows.

 

Scooter, bicycle n skates should not be inside mall.

[Qpik]

All the "slapper", "pusher", "helper" replies sounded very galant??

 

But seriously would u really speak up or just "mind ur own biz"?

 

Or address this to mall security which by then the pple concerned wld hv left the scene?

[Jman888]

All the "slapper", "pusher", "helper" replies sounded very galant??

 

But seriously would u really speak up or just "mind ur own biz"?

 

Or address this to mall security which by then the pple concerned wld hv left the scene?

 

 

what you actually want from us?

 

你到底想我们怎么样？

[Joseph22]

All the "slapper", "pusher", "helper" replies sounded very galant??

 

But seriously would u really speak up or just "mind ur own biz"?

 

Or address this to mall security which by then the pple concerned wld hv left the scene?

Which mall?? I want to go and see. If can scold the parents.😡😡😡

[Eyke]

2. Pretend that you got hit by him/her, and give a very painful look, see how they and their parents respond...

 

 

must learn from the best...

 

 

 

 

Edited July 18, 2014 by Eyke

[Qpik]

 

 

what you actually want from us?

 

你到底想我们怎么样？

Just highlighting n speak up when needed not for others but for urself or family members.

 

I saw alot of parents rather keep quiet , put up w it than speaking up. Maybe if it happened to them in the carpark n their car r damaged then they speak up? Imo, bodily harm seems to be the least concern as compared to their vehicle?

[Ryu]

 

 

what you actually want from us?

 

你到底想我们怎么样？

 

Maybe he want you to Stomp, post youtube video on forums, write in to Wanbao, complain to MP, go HongLim protest, etc. You know, the things that people love to do nowadays.

[Qpik]

Which mall?? I want to go and see. If can scold the parents.😡😡😡

This mall sure every parents know. Students fm RVHS, Nanyang, Nan Hua, RGPS..etc elite sekolah attend enrichment there.

 

Near bloodsucker bldg. Cannot make it too obvious cos sure got members here send their kids there.

 

Maybe he want you to Stomp, post youtube video on forums, write in to Wanbao, complain to MP, go HongLim protest, etc. You know, the things that people love to do nowadays.

too much to ask lah.

 

sharing n warning here enuff.

 

I don't even bother to share rd encounters vid unless it aid in insurance.

must learn from the best

this kind hard to learn n execute . must hv confidence will garner a Golden Horse award else don't pull it

[Jman888]

This mall sure every parents know. Students fm RVHS, Nanyang, Nan Hua, RGPS..etc elite sekolah attend enrichment there.

 

Near bloodsucker bldg. Cannot make it too obvious cos sure got members here send their kids there.

 

 

 

 

orh................... that building huh !

 

then lagi cannot complaint just keep quiet and walk away, you duno who is bumping into you

[Ryu]

 

 

orh................... that building huh !

 

then lagi cannot complaint just keep quiet and walk away, you duno who is bumping into you

 

Sekali they complain you blocking their kids instead.

[Jman888]

 

Sekali they complain you blocking their kids instead.

 

 

yalor, if they drop 1 hair i also cannot afford to pay

[Mockngbrd]

Stomp them ah

[Qpik]

 

orh................... that building huh !

 

then lagi cannot complaint just keep quiet and walk away, you duno who is bumping into you

Hehe I c u also know. I encourages my DD not to be a floor mat.

 

There r ways to xia suay these errant parents n if someone here r at the receiving end. Don't b defensive. Take a moment n think abt what r u trying to impart to ur kids. Titles r but titles. Common sense prevail n using it will prevent us fm getting into avoidable accident.

[Ryu]

 

 

yalor, if they drop 1 hair i also cannot afford to pay

 

I think you better stop going to that mall. Better stick to JEM?

[Daniellica]

I got 3 kids. 8mths, 4+yrs and 10yrs old.

I did encounter such acts like skooting inside malls or heelys inside malls.

Quite a few times near misses my kid/s or either bump my kids.

I dun give a shit. I just shouted "hey! Kid! Either you are stupid or your parents got water in their head!

Your parents dont know how to teach u issit?"

 

I wait for those parents reply. While my hp is on vid rec.

I dun fark care. Becos they endanger others.

[DavidOh]

I wondered if there are any parents who have encountered this before and how they would react.

 

Some years back, my daughter was in the library (children session), saw this young boy about 7-8years old sitting awkwardly along the corridor between two shelves of books. My daughter approach him and told him, Kok kok (big brother) why don't you sit on the chair there, more comfortable and your back will not hurt?

 

The boy turned and looked at daughter and shouted "you are crazy, get lost and don't disturb me".

 

I was shocked for the boy's aggression. I pulled my daughter aside and told her that her good intention may not always be appreciate by people.

 

I then brought my daughter to the boy and explain to the boy in a calm and friendly tone because I thought it was just some miscommunication like we adults have. To my horror, the boy gave a "dare look" and made this angry face at me.

 

At this point, his parents came and I explain. The parents told me, your daughter is wrong and should mind her own business.

 

Up to today, I am still lost as to whether should I really teach my daughter to mind her own business and don't bother about caring for others.

 

I was also surprised by the parents reaction.

 

I not sure if my daughter thought that I was a coward that I did not challenge them and "protect" her since she did nothing wrong. In way it is true, because we had already taught her that if she did nothing wrong there is nothing to be afraid off.

 

Confused. Anybody any suggestion or have you encountered something like this before or what would you have done on the hindsight? Thank you.

 

 

[Ryu]

I wondered if there are any parents who have encountered this before and how they would react.

 

Some years back, my daughter was in the library (children session), saw this young boy about 7-8years old sitting awkwardly along the corridor between two shelves of books. My daughter approach him and told him, Kok kok (big brother) why don't you sit on the chair there, more comfortable and your back will not hurt?

 

The boy turned and looked at daughter and shouted "you are crazy, get lost and don't disturb me".

 

I was shocked for the boy's aggression. I pulled my daughter aside and told her that her good intention may not always be appreciate by people.

 

I then brought my daughter to the boy and explain to the boy in a calm and friendly tone because I thought it was just some miscommunication like we adults have. To my horror, the boy gave a "dare look" and made this angry face at me.

 

At this point, his parents came and I explain. The parents told me, your daughter is wrong and should mind her own business.

 

Up to today, I am still lost as to whether should I really teach my daughter to mind her own business and don't bother about caring for others.

 

I was also surprised by the parents reaction.

 

I not sure if my daughter thought that I was a coward that I did not challenge them and "protect" her since she did nothing wrong. In way it is true, because we had already taught her that if she did nothing wrong there is nothing to be afraid off.

 

Confused. Anybody any suggestion or have you encountered something like this before or what would you have done on the hindsight? Thank you.

 

 

 

My thoughts are:

Kids usually take after their parents, learning following mimicking their behavior so I am not surprised the boy's parents reacted in similar fashion.

 

There is a saying - not all that needs help wants to be helped. For such, best to leave them alone but does not mean we should stop helping those who welcome help.