Evillusion Supersonic January 25, 2019 Share January 25, 2019 those baby bonus and stuff ... vapourizes or evaporates damn fast.. its not hard cash where you can buy milk tins (I was told) mostly medical only ... Something like Merc C&C giving out those thousands credits....... will finish by year 2 already...... after that you are on your own Like what they said........ no free Lunch My daughter's time the gov will top up dollar for dollar up to $2.5-3k where the account will have about $5-6k at the 7th yr and can be withdrawn fully. I did that for her....... ↡ Advertisement Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
13177 Hypersonic January 25, 2019 Share January 25, 2019 when you ask a staff wait for you until you call/text him ... he probably go kopitiam lim kopi, mcdonald to enjoy aircon or atas coffee at SB/CBTL playing phone when you ask a maid to wait for you "outside" ... there is not much option for the maid must standby near where you shout or whistle to call the maid and maid (unless very season type) has inferior feeling, they wont sit next to uncle/auntie if there are sitting area there hence, they have to find their own place to squat Thats the problem, when other people see they would assume maid abuse?! 1 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
BanCoe Hypersonic January 25, 2019 Share January 25, 2019 I've lost touch with this Baby Bonus $ for $ thingy and it goes to another account afterthat like how Edusave balance goes to CPF or something like that . Maybe newly minted fathers or to be fathers like @radx will know better My daughter's time the gov will top up dollar for dollar up to $2.5-3k where the account will have about $5-6k at the 7th yr and can be withdrawn fully. I did that for her....... 7 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Evillusion Supersonic January 25, 2019 Share January 25, 2019 I've lost touch with this Baby Bonus $ for $ thingy and it goes to another account afterthat like how Edusave balance goes to CPF or something like that . Maybe newly minted fathers or to be fathers like @radx will know better Ya...me too! Not in my handbook anymore since my kids all above 10 years old... Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Angcheek Hypersonic January 25, 2019 Share January 25, 2019 Ya...me too! Not in my handbook anymore since my kids all above 10 years old...ððð.Ur kids so young 2 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Angcheek Hypersonic January 25, 2019 Share January 25, 2019 I've lost touch with this Baby Bonus $ for $ thingy and it goes to another account afterthat like how Edusave balance goes to CPF or something like that . Maybe newly minted fathers or to be fathers like @radx will know better Ai yo thats easy to solve ... just pop afew out 2 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Evillusion Supersonic January 25, 2019 Share January 25, 2019 Ur kids so young ððMy son 26 this November and my daughter will be 14 this september 16.....we always disturb her about her birthday.. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mkl22 Supersonic January 25, 2019 Share January 25, 2019 Maybe you are right. Employer asked the maid to wait outside, maybe no asked her to squat or sit on the pavement. Maid herself choose to squat or sit there? Now have to listen to the maid part of her story what have actually happens? We are simply just guessing or assume only. ya agreed. the ignorant ang mo thinks he knows it all. its very common and normal for the people of the countries around us to sit or squat by the kerb or pavement. nothing wrong with that. always imposing their own shortsightedness... 3 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Galantspeedz Turbocharged January 25, 2019 Share January 25, 2019 Siao liao if ang mo see a bunch of ah bengs and ah lians squatting at shopping centre, sure think is a bunch of malnourished teens being abused 2 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Voodooman Supersonic January 26, 2019 Share January 26, 2019 (edited) Siao liao if ang mo see a bunch of ah bengs and ah lians squatting at shopping centre, sure think is a bunch of malnourished teens being abusedThis case can confirm not abuse. Can also confirm i don't need an angmo to tell me i should ask my helper to join me at the dining table while we dine (i know many families don't do that as they treat the maid as an "employee"). Edited January 26, 2019 by Voodooman 1 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
D3badge 6th Gear January 26, 2019 Share January 26, 2019 only husband and wife in the house need 2 maids? i think the couple a bit 变态! and the news say a flat in yishun! 2 maid for 2 person in a flat? wow Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kusje Supersonic January 27, 2019 Share January 27, 2019 This case can confirm not abuse. Can also confirm i don't need an angmo to tell me i should ask my helper to join me at the dining table while we dine (i know many families don't do that as they treat the maid as an "employee").Ang mo full of Bs lah. Do you see Alfred being seated with batman for dinner? 1 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Voodooman Supersonic January 27, 2019 Share January 27, 2019 Ang mo full of Bs lah. Do you see Alfred being seated with batman for dinner? Yup. Full of angmo class bulls**t. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mahjong74 Supercharged February 11, 2019 Share February 11, 2019 Jail for couple who punched, forced maid to drink dirty mop water SINGAPORE — A husband and wife were sentenced to jail on Monday (Feb 11) for abusing their domestic helper by, among other things, making her drink dirty water mixed with dog hair and a floor cleaning agent. Linda Seah Lei Sie, a 39-year-old beauty salon manager who was convicted of six charges, was sentenced to three years in jail for instigating most of the abuses. She had told Myanmar national Phyu Phyu Mar to knock her head hard against the kitchen floor, saying that the maid agency had ordered it, and grabbed the helper’s hair so forcefully that a chunk of it fell out. Seah was separately ordered to pay the victim S$11,800 in compensation, of which S$9,000 was to make up for her pain and suffering, while the remaining S$2,800 was to account for her loss of income over four months. Seah’s husband Lim Toon Leng, a 44-year-old interior designer, was convicted of one charge of punching the helper twice on her forehead and was sentenced to six weeks’ jail. Lawyers of the Singaporean couple, who claimed trial for their charges, told the court their clients will be appealing against their conviction and sentencing. The couple was granted a stay of execution pending their appeal. Seah’s bail amount was bumped up from S$10,000 to S$15,000 and she had to surrender her passport to prevent her from leaving the country. Lim’s bail amount remains at S$5,000. Ms Phyu Phyu Mar, whose age is not known, was hired in February 2016 to take care of the couple’s daughter, now aged seven, in their Punggol flat, and accompany Seah to the beauty salon a few times a week. She was attacked between August and October that year. Among other abuses, Seah had forced the maid to pour scalding hot water on her own shoulders on two occasions, then gave her a needle to puncture the blisters that had developed, instead of taking her to seek medical attention. Seah had also used her mobile phone to hit the helper multiple times on her head, eye and hand. AGGRAVATING FACTORS District Judge Olivia Low said Seah’s acts demanded a more severe sentencing as they were “calculated” and had brought psychological as well as physical harm to Ms Phyu Phyu Mar. Seah had also continued to show a “clear lack of remorse” throughout the 16-day trial, the judge noted. “By asking the victim to pour hot water on herself, or telling the victim that the agency had asked for the victim to knock her head on the floor, Linda hoped to avoid blame for the injuries suffered by the victim,” said District Judge Low. She added: “Linda’s unhappiness with the victim’s work should not justify any form of violence against the victim.” In sentencing Seah, District Judge Low also considered five aggravating factors which were not tied to the charges she faced: Ms Phyu Phyu Mar was “denied food” such that her weight had plummeted from 50kg to 38kg by October 2016. The maid had testified that she was given only biscuits and sometimes uncooked noodles that were dipped in cold water. Seah argued during the trial that the maid had wanted to slim down. The maid was not paid her salary throughout her employment, and only received her pay in November 2016 after the Ministry of Manpower intervened. Seah had “constantly threatened” to report the maid to the police, causing the victim to live in fear. Seah took steps to isolate the maid by discouraging her from interacting with the staff at the beauty salon, Anew Me Beauty Aesthetics. Seah told the maid to lie to the police even after investigations began. The court heard that Seah had instructed the victim to tell four officers that she got her bruises from falling down while cleaning. In seeking a lighter sentence for Seah on Monday, defence lawyer Ragbir Singh Bajwa said Seah’s presence in her daughter’s life is “crucial” as the girl, now a Primary Two pupil at Raffles Girls’ Primary School, is “solely reliant” on her for day-to-day needs. He noted that Seah had no issues with two other domestic helpers whom she had engaged before Ms Phyu Phyu Mar. One of them worked for her for about three-and-a-half years with “no allegations of impropriety”, he said. Mr Bajwa added that the couple “did take steps to medicate” the maid by giving her a “sterilised” needle to poke the blisters on her arm caused by the scalding water. THE PROSECUTION ARGUES But Deputy Public Prosecutor Sarah Shi argued that this should not be considered as a mitigating factor as the needle only caused additional pain. Ms Shi urged the court to take into account the lasting trauma inflicted on the maid, citing the victim’s impact statement which was recorded on Jan 31 this year. In it, Ms Phyu Phyu Mar said she was scared to continue working as a domestic worker because she thinks she might be abused again. “The protection of domestic maids from abuse by their employers is a matter of public interest, given their vulnerable status and the prevalence of such relationships in Singapore,” Ms Shi wrote in her sentencing submission. For each charge of voluntarily causing hurt to a maid, the couple could have been jailed up to three years and fined up to S$7,500. For causing hurt by means of poison, Seah could have been jailed up to 10 years, fined and caned. https://www.todayonline.com/singapore/jail-terms-couple-who-punched-forced-maid-drink-dirty-mop-water To summarise wife sentenced to 3 years jail husband sentenced to 6 weeks jail 2 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
WangWang888 5th Gear February 11, 2019 Share February 11, 2019 Jail for couple who punched, forced maid to drink dirty mop water SINGAPORE â A husband and wife were sentenced to jail on Monday (Feb 11) for abusing their domestic helper by, among other things, making her drink dirty water mixed with dog hair and a floor cleaning agent. Linda Seah Lei Sie, a 39-year-old beauty salon manager who was convicted of six charges, was sentenced to three years in jail for instigating most of the abuses. She had told Myanmar national Phyu Phyu Mar to knock her head hard against the kitchen floor, saying that the maid agency had ordered it, and grabbed the helperâs hair so forcefully that a chunk of it fell out. Seah was separately ordered to pay the victim S$11,800 in compensation, of which S$9,000 was to make up for her pain and suffering, while the remaining S$2,800 was to account for her loss of income over four months. Seahâs husband Lim Toon Leng, a 44-year-old interior designer, was convicted of one charge of punching the helper twice on her forehead and was sentenced to six weeksâ jail. Lawyers of the Singaporean couple, who claimed trial for their charges, told the court their clients will be appealing against their conviction and sentencing. The couple was granted a stay of execution pending their appeal. Seahâs bail amount was bumped up from S$10,000 to S$15,000 and she had to surrender her passport to prevent her from leaving the country. Limâs bail amount remains at S$5,000. Ms Phyu Phyu Mar, whose age is not known, was hired in February 2016 to take care of the coupleâs daughter, now aged seven, in their Punggol flat, and accompany Seah to the beauty salon a few times a week. She was attacked between August and October that year. Among other abuses, Seah had forced the maid to pour scalding hot water on her own shoulders on two occasions, then gave her a needle to puncture the blisters that had developed, instead of taking her to seek medical attention. Seah had also used her mobile phone to hit the helper multiple times on her head, eye and hand. AGGRAVATING FACTORS District Judge Olivia Low said Seahâs acts demanded a more severe sentencing as they were âcalculatedâ and had brought psychological as well as physical harm to Ms Phyu Phyu Mar. Seah had also continued to show a âclear lack of remorseâ throughout the 16-day trial, the judge noted. âBy asking the victim to pour hot water on herself, or telling the victim that the agency had asked for the victim to knock her head on the floor, Linda hoped to avoid blame for the injuries suffered by the victim,â said District Judge Low. She added: âLindaâs unhappiness with the victimâs work should not justify any form of violence against the victim.â In sentencing Seah, District Judge Low also considered five aggravating factors which were not tied to the charges she faced: Ms Phyu Phyu Mar was âdenied foodâ such that her weight had plummeted from 50kg to 38kg by October 2016. The maid had testified that she was given only biscuits and sometimes uncooked noodles that were dipped in cold water. Seah argued during the trial that the maid had wanted to slim down. The maid was not paid her salary throughout her employment, and only received her pay in November 2016 after the Ministry of Manpower intervened. Seah had âconstantly threatenedâ to report the maid to the police, causing the victim to live in fear. Seah took steps to isolate the maid by discouraging her from interacting with the staff at the beauty salon, Anew Me Beauty Aesthetics. Seah told the maid to lie to the police even after investigations began. The court heard that Seah had instructed the victim to tell four officers that she got her bruises from falling down while cleaning. In seeking a lighter sentence for Seah on Monday, defence lawyer Ragbir Singh Bajwa said Seahâs presence in her daughterâs life is âcrucialâ as the girl, now a Primary Two pupil at Raffles Girlsâ Primary School, is âsolely reliantâ on her for day-to-day needs. He noted that Seah had no issues with two other domestic helpers whom she had engaged before Ms Phyu Phyu Mar. One of them worked for her for about three-and-a-half years with âno allegations of improprietyâ, he said. Mr Bajwa added that the couple âdid take steps to medicateâ the maid by giving her a âsterilisedâ needle to poke the blisters on her arm caused by the scalding water. THE PROSECUTION ARGUES But Deputy Public Prosecutor Sarah Shi argued that this should not be considered as a mitigating factor as the needle only caused additional pain. Ms Shi urged the court to take into account the lasting trauma inflicted on the maid, citing the victimâs impact statement which was recorded on Jan 31 this year. In it, Ms Phyu Phyu Mar said she was scared to continue working as a domestic worker because she thinks she might be abused again. âThe protection of domestic maids from abuse by their employers is a matter of public interest, given their vulnerable status and the prevalence of such relationships in Singapore,â Ms Shi wrote in her sentencing submission. For each charge of voluntarily causing hurt to a maid, the couple could have been jailed up to three years and fined up to S$7,500. For causing hurt by means of poison, Seah could have been jailed up to 10 years, fined and caned. https://www.todayonline.com/singapore/jail-terms-couple-who-punched-forced-maid-drink-dirty-mop-water To summarise wife sentenced to 3 years jail husband sentenced to 6 weeks jail The wife damn fierce seah.... 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Victor68 Turbocharged February 11, 2019 Share February 11, 2019 when you ask a staff wait for you until you call/text him ... he probably go kopitiam lim kopi, mcdonald to enjoy aircon or atas coffee at SB/CBTL playing phone when you ask a maid to wait for you "outside" ... there is not much option for the maid must standby near where you shout or whistle to call the maid and maid (unless very season type) has inferior feeling, they wont sit next to uncle/auntie if there are sitting area there hence, they have to find their own place to squat That is where the employer should always consider for his maid. Can he leave her at home if he can't bring her in? Alternatively, can he bring her somewhere nearby so that she could wait so that he could find her when he is finished? Always put yourself in her shoes and you would know what is best for her. I won't consider this an abuse but inconsiderate. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kusje Supersonic February 11, 2019 Share February 11, 2019 3 years jail only? Wa Kai, SG laws really weak Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
ER-3682 Twincharged February 11, 2019 Share February 11, 2019 3 years jail only? Wa Kai, SG laws really weak Minus Weekends & Holidays..2 Years....only. ↡ Advertisement Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
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