Sci10213 3rd Gear November 18, 2013 Share November 18, 2013 My friend, W, recently asked me for advice. One of his friends, X, was worried about his health recently as he suspected he contracted AIDS. Becos he played around before his recent marriage. Now X is unsure to go for testing or not as he is afraid of the positive outcome. W asked me what would I advice if I were him i.e. W? Obviously it is easy to ask X to go for testing or perhaps anonyomous testing but the key here is to put yourself in X's shoes? If the outcome is positive, X will face shame from family, friends & relatives. Worst of all, his wife may be infected as well or leave him... MCF Bros, what u think the advice should be? ↡ Advertisement 1 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
SuPerBoRed Twincharged November 18, 2013 Share November 18, 2013 Without a doubt.. TEST! The wife's life is impt too... can't be selfish there. 1 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vid Hypersonic November 18, 2013 Share November 18, 2013 (edited) My friend, W, recently asked me for advice. One of his friends, X, was worried about his health recently as he suspected he contracted AIDS. Becos he played around before his recent marriage. Now X is unsure to go for testing or not as he is afraid of the positive outcome. W asked me what would I advice if I were him i.e. W? Obviously it is easy to ask X to go for testing or perhaps anonyomous testing but the key here is to put yourself in X's shoes? If the outcome is positive, X will face shame from family, friends & relatives. Worst of all, his wife may be infected as well or leave him... MCF Bros, what u think the advice should be? If X really loves his wife and family, he should go for the test. Whatever the outcome, he should be responsible. Reality sucks but can't help it. Edited November 18, 2013 by Vid 1 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jman888 Moderator November 18, 2013 Share November 18, 2013 what so difficult? anyone who play around will face such problem and testing is the first step, haven't go already worried so much even if i were the best friend, what advice he need from me? i can cure him? to put it bluntly 关我屁事！ Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Myxilplix Turbocharged November 18, 2013 Share November 18, 2013 Is this a trick question? Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vid Hypersonic November 18, 2013 Share November 18, 2013 And if positive, X should call up all his ex and inform them. 1 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rainbowbiatch 6th Gear November 18, 2013 Share November 18, 2013 test first. everything else can tok later. 1 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hydrocarbon Turbocharged November 18, 2013 Share November 18, 2013 Go for test. If negative, good for him. If positive, inform his wife and his ex-es / fbs, ons (those can he can contact, and have had sexual contact with during the duration of his infection). Else, if don't inform, his wife also will find out in 10 years or less. And if she get preggy, baby also might tio, which makes it worse.I know it's bad either way, but just go for it. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Othello Supersonic November 18, 2013 Share November 18, 2013 no 2 ways about it, all the bros here got it right - Go for testing newly married for goodness sake Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Staff69 Hypersonic November 18, 2013 Share November 18, 2013 That why must use condom...can google, got anonymous aids test , I think near lavender. result know in 1 day Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
TVT Supercharged November 18, 2013 Share November 18, 2013 X should have done an AIDS test before marrying. Anyway....at his situation now, he doesn't have much choice at all. He needs to go for the test. And if positive, X should call up all his ex and inform them. Yes, he got to inform them. Or else, MOH may do "it" for him.... That why must use condom...can google, got anonymous aids test , I think near lavender.result know in 1 day I think you are referring to the clinic at Kelantan Lane....?!?! 1 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Othello Supersonic November 18, 2013 Share November 18, 2013 I think you are referring to the clinic at Kelantan Lane....?!?! many clinics provide that. just google and choose the most ulu one Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mcf777 Turbocharged November 18, 2013 Share November 18, 2013 Heard Kelantan clinic dont need to register yr name. All checks are done anonymously. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Celicar Turbocharged November 18, 2013 Share November 18, 2013 Difference between test and not test is whether X will know. But whether he know or not, he has AIDS or not is cast in stone, is a fact already. Test and face reality. After that, regardless of result, don't sleep around anymore. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Staff69 Hypersonic November 18, 2013 Share November 18, 2013 Ya that the one, one of my relative also kana, has since pass on. there are some gone crazy upon being tested positive, went around spreading the disease. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
TVT Supercharged November 18, 2013 Share November 18, 2013 Heard Kelantan clinic dont need to register yr name. All checks are done anonymously. Yes, no need to register. They will give you a number, that number is all that can "identify" you. Heard also that clinic is operated by volunteers, not MOH staff. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Baal Supersonic November 18, 2013 Share November 18, 2013 If X really loves his wife and family, he should go for the test. Whatever the outcome, he should be responsible. Reality sucks but can't help it. agreed. If really tio , heard that there this "triple cocktail" treatmnent in Thai. About 1500 SGD for 1-2 mths supply. Generic of course. Also read that with this, the levels can be so low that will test negative. But once stop, the levels will be up. But really, go test. Will be triple tragedy if new born got infected. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jajoba123 3rd Gear November 18, 2013 Share November 18, 2013 actually this is the problem, there is a sign that singapore men increasingly go for unprotected sex even 958城市频道friday nite engage the listener on this subject. and from the live calls i think alot really nvr put precaution ↡ Advertisement Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
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