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Cannot go Sushi Tei for birthdays meh?


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Kids these days have too much of a good thing... Sushi Teh is expensive food!!

 

Mine, I know was donkey years back at the former A & W in AMK town centre.... [sunny]

I wonder if the girl contributes during the dates or the guy pays for virtually everything?

 

Isn't the thought that counts the most? Sho shallow.

 

Only her birthday niah and she wants ex restaurant .... [sweatdrop]

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I guess if the bf had cooked for her, she should have junked him immediately. since she will find him too cheapo to even bring her to a restaurant.

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I guess if the bf had cooked for her, she should have junked him immediately. since she will find him too cheapo to even bring her to a restaurant.

 

Known each other for less than a year and she expect a posh restaurant just because her friends bf does.... [sly]

 

What is her friends bf drives a Ferrari, her's must at least a Lambo ... [sweatdrop][sweatdrop]

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These days, when BF brings girls to posh restaurant, romantic places etc, especially during the early stages of courtship. There is usually some hidden agenda...

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To the girl, its romantic ambience but to the guy, knn, don't know will go steady or not and 'fuel consumption so high' (chia yu tang) during pak tor ... [sweatdrop]

 

All vehicles also need fuel, also can't save much on FC, might as well invest in better grade fuel like V-Power. Better for your engine in the long run hahahaha. Same thing for girls.

Kids these days have too much of a good thing... Sushi Teh is expensive food!!

 

Moderately expensive but nothing special.

 

Just like Ippudo. Not exactly cheap but nothing special.

 

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All vehicles also need fuel, also can't save much on FC, might as well invest in better grade fuel like V-Power. Better for your engine in the long run hahahaha. Same thing for girls.

Also need to see what is the fuel. It used to be romantic gestures, costing time/effort rather than money especially during the poor/schooling days.

 

Nowadays it seems to be mostly about the money part and one-up-manship.

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Also need to see what is the fuel. It used to be romantic gestures, costing time/effort rather than money especially during the poor/schooling days.

 

Nowadays it seems to be mostly about the money part and one-up-manship.

 

Because along the way I think some guys spoilt the market. First occasion together already buy Chanel necklace, earrings etc. Furthermore this is the era of social media and bloggers. Just have a look at any "well known" bloggers's blog, you see them uploading pictures of the boyfriend lavishing expensive gifts on them, bringing them to posh restaurants for EACH meal, not just occasions.

 

Market already spoilt!

 

The rest of the guys, just gotta suffer. Haha.

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I think a lot of people miss this line.

She feel that her boyfriend is not responding in kind.

 

Yup. hard to say without knowing more.

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Honestly, I agree with the girl. It's really cheapo to go Sushi teh for birthday. She was kind enough to use the word frugal on the bf. I would have use the word miser.

 

It's not that Sushi teh is not acceptable, but for birthday, which is only ONCE a year , pretty sure it is not unreasonable to go to a more unique and classier place which the girl has never been before. It is not about trying to show off with money, but more of trying to show effort, value and sacrifices for the girl. It doesn't hurt to give joy and surprises by making a bit more effort and sacrifice a little bit to show her how much he value her.

 

I don't think it is being a gold digger. She is not asking him to go to expensive places everyday. She is just expecting a better place, a classier place for her BD so that she feel valued. You don't need to go to Skypark 57, One altitude or Level 33. Just a classier restaurant which she has never been before would have done the trick.

 

Come on guys......it doesnt hurt to make your gal feel a little special.

 

I think you are missing the point here. What the bros here are trying to say is why do you need to spend more $$ to show more effort, value or sacrifices. Not to forget that the boyfriend may have needed to save for a long time to bring her to Sushi Tei.

 

Not sure of how well to do her boyfriend is. but if she keeps expecting him to keep up to her social status, I would say it is way too materialistic..

 

If she is not willing to lower her social status, then leave with a good note. writing something like that only proves nothing positive about her.

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Because along the way I think some guys spoilt the market. First occasion together already buy Chanel necklace, earrings etc. Furthermore this is the era of social media and bloggers. Just have a look at any "well known" bloggers's blog, you see them uploading pictures of the boyfriend lavishing expensive gifts on them, bringing them to posh restaurants for EACH meal, not just occasions.

 

Market already spoilt!

 

The rest of the guys, just gotta suffer. Haha.

 

That's why I say the younger ones are all spoilt... Firstly spoilt by their parents, then by the so called BF. Many girls tend to have the 'Princess Syndrome'...

 

Think need to 'educate' our kids...Not to go for material stuff.

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