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Runaway brides in Singapore


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to a certain extent, i agree with her.

 

man do see hdb as a way to settle down but never look deep into the issue.

 

perhaps women can see it clearer and men are usually bo chup, cos they can eat outside [laugh]

 

 

it's not HDB..she is using that as an excuse

 

it is peer pressure from family and friends

 

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to a certain extent, i agree with her.

 

man do see hdb as a way to settle down but never look deep into the issue.

 

perhaps women can see it clearer and men are usually bo chup, cos they can eat outside [laugh]

 

Nowadays, women can also eat outside.. -_-

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to a certain extent, i agree with her.

 

man do see hdb as a way to settle down but never look deep into the issue.

 

perhaps women can see it clearer and men are usually bo chup, cos they can eat outside [laugh]

 

now women also eat outside liao....

 

moral of the story: once buy HDB, don't bother propose [laugh]

 

they committed to HDB due to peer pressure, also since they have been together so long... both their parents and friends took for granted they will get married

 

They may have gone thru NS and Uni together but working adults is a new ball game because you will know many richer, better, more elgible guys.. she is only 23

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the thing is .....

 

1. men see getting a flat as end of the 'courting' and 'chop and confirmed', so they dun focus on the relationship, to make thing worst, many couple could be separately staying with their own parents.

 

2. women although also see it as 'chop and confirmed' after applying the flat, yet they are also looking at the men to be the 'husband' role and no longer a boyfriend. The husband should do more since they are living apart until the flat is ready.

 

of course women also eat outside :D :D

 

now women also eat outside liao....

 

moral of the story: once buy HDB, don't bother propose [laugh]

 

they committed to HDB due to peer pressure, also since they have been together so long... both their parents and friends took for granted they will get married

 

They may have gone thru NS and Uni together but working adults is a new ball game because you will know many richer, better, more elgible guys.. she is only 23

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the thing is .....

 

1. men see getting a flat as end of the 'courting' and 'chop and confirmed', so they dun focus on the relationship, to make thing worst, many couple could be separately staying with their own parents.

 

2. women although also see it as 'chop and confirmed' after applying the flat, yet they are also looking at the men to be the 'husband' role and no longer a boyfriend. The husband should do more since they are living apart until the flat is ready.

 

of course women also eat outside :D :D

 

Uniquely Singapore eh? apply for flat, chop and stamp liao.. then get married.. [laugh]

 

psst.. applies to me too.. :ph34r:

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the thing is .....

 

1. men see getting a flat as end of the 'courting' and 'chop and confirmed', so they dun focus on the relationship, to make thing worst, many couple could be separately staying with their own parents.

 

2. women although also see it as 'chop and confirmed' after applying the flat, yet they are also looking at the men to be the 'husband' and boyfriend role and no longer a boyfriend. The husband should do more since they are living apart until the flat is ready.

 

of course women also eat outside :D :D

 

 

amended [laugh]

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Uniquely Singapore eh? apply for flat, chop and stamp liao.. then get married.. [laugh]

 

psst.. applies to me too.. :ph34r:

 

mine opposite...

 

decided to get married... no intention of getting a place...

 

one fine day, my oc says... let's buy a flat so her sis and bro can live with us.. i say ok

 

we live happily ever after :D

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Uniquely Singapore eh? apply for flat, chop and stamp liao.. then get married.. [laugh]

 

psst.. applies to me too.. :ph34r:

 

 

so you should know what to do [laugh] [laugh]

 

what got worst in such arrangement (looking at friends, relative, etc), men are happily married yet living like a bachelor, who dun want!

 

women on the other hand, couldn't have the men around and force to live as single, which also give other men opportunity!

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