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How do you maintain or ignite the passion in your marriage?


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IC only ah.. i thought Keys also.. then you cannot get out of the house [lipsrsealed]

 

no wonder change car will improve relationship.. got chance play hid and seek [laugh]

 

The best method is to "safekeep" your hubby cheque book. [laugh]

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TS only ask for comment on man's side..not really for the wife....but then......you can always use the 'new car for some ''monkey businesss'' with her........she will love you ....and your new car even more... [laugh]...and new car always give a new environment for the business.... [laugh][laugh]

 

You sure after 10 yrs of marriage wifey still willing to "do" it in the car?

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U r so right. I think my boy is perpetually on steroids. He doesn't walk. He RUNS. Just last sat, he suddenly took off at ikea. Had to spend 15 mins looking around before finding him at the kiddy section. My heart almost failed!

 

 

Like father like son. Probably some a cute/sweet girl caught his attention at kiddy section. [laugh]

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Go for holiday together often. it helps a lot.

 

Singapore has too much distractions. From work, to politics, to bad drivers, to pig and dog friends. Where got time to appreciate wife?

 

So go for a holiday where only both of you can depend and talk to each other. And when there is no distractions, there can then be plenty of sex.

 

 

Easy say than done bros.

 

For those just married couple probably both parties willing to compromise and give in to each other schedule/preferences. After donkey years of marriage most of the time i would be at some cafe zipping coffee( use eye power) while wifey at some level/corner/shop swiping her credit card.

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I don't understand it, I AM free from these 3 things - I have no money, we don't talk and we don't have sex.

 

Yet my wife is still always angry with me

 

That is really bad.

 

Your don't share any common hobby/interest?

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Easy say than done bros.

 

For those just married couple probably both parties willing to compromise and give in to each other schedule/preferences. After donkey years of marriage most of the time i would be at some cafe zipping coffee( use eye power) while wifey at some level/corner/shop swiping her credit card.

At least it's her own credit card......... [laugh]

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You sure after 10 yrs of marriage wifey still willing to "do" it in the car?

That show how much you know woman...woman in late 30s and 40s...known as 狼虎之年....very hungry one... [laugh]

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That show how much you know woman...woman in late 30s and 40s...known as 狼虎之年....very hungry one... [laugh]

 

 

One very important factor u have forgotten.

 

 

 

Make sure your woman still maintain her figure(size) after 10 years of marriage. -_-

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[laugh][laugh][laugh]

 

yup....and now for 4 mths still v happy with my car.......

 

however, totally lost all interest in females....... [laugh] lucky got my car to keep me co

 

You every night chase young teenage boys around your bedroom of course lost interest in females lah :D

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At least it's her own credit card......... [laugh]

 

Ya i do know is her cc....but the "opportunity cost" of waiting for her to finish her shopping..sigh...there are much better stuffs to do when in oversea. [:p]

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Ya i do know is her cc....but the "opportunity cost" of waiting for her to finish her shopping..sigh...there are much better stuffs to do when in oversea. [:p]

Then you should tell your wife to part ways during that few hours of shopping during overseas tours.

 

One of my colleague did that when his wife joined us for one of our company trips. They both went in different directions and then we meet up again once her shopping ended......... [laugh]

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Good pointers from all the bros....and J22 yes you can comment and give your pointers too (i take back my requirements on 10 years and above...its not 10 yrs series lah).

 

For me...I do the following:

 

1. I remember the love i once had (or still have) for my wife...our dating days leading to our marriage. Most importantly I remember my wedding vows....

 

2. It helps she's a eye candy...yes yes i know eat the same candy for years and its not special anymore....but what i do is (and it sounds a bit weird), I sometimes step out of my shoe and pretend to be a stranger seeing my wife for the first time...its funny but i can actually manage to find/see beauty which were for most parts (time) taken for granted.

 

3. I stay faithful by not allowing myself to be distracted or be caught in any situation where there is even a remote possibility of wrongdoings

 

4. I distract myself with games/books/tv drama

 

5. I 'explore different styles' and make sure i hit home run at least 3-5 times every round....you get the point [laugh]

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For me...I do the following:

 

3. I stay faithful by not allowing myself to be distracted or be caught in any situation where there is even a remote possibility of wrongdoings

This is getting common nowadays and will be forgiven [laugh]

 

4. I distract myself with games/books/tv drama

err..... how would that help? :huh:

 

5. I 'explore different styles' and make sure i hit home run at least 3-5 times every round....you get the point [laugh]

err..... no really, can elaborate in more detail, or simple words [laugh]

 

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