Jamesc Hypersonic August 28, 2012 Share August 28, 2012 They say kids grow up in a blink of an eye. When I was changing nappies I kept blinking my eyes. At least 20 times but time did not move any faster and I just breath in more toxic fumes. ↡ Advertisement Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Throttle2 Supersonic August 28, 2012 Share August 28, 2012 Actually not everyone is cut out to raise children or go thru the hardship of raising kids. A child can either make or break a marriage. My usual advise to my surrounding friends, don't give birth just to show than you can do it. If you are not ready, please don't try. in that case better dont get married becos not everyone is cut out to get married. you can either make or break a relationship and have many legal consequences with marriage. dont just get married to show your friends and relatives, it you are not ready , dont try. come on what is ready and not ready? it's about self sacrifice and the joy of a complete family nucleus. many people want kids but becos they put it off until late 30s, the body cannot make it already. then they regret. If you are a man in singapore and dont want kids, then better dont get married. just live together. your assets remain yours and safe . why sign millions of dollars away? Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Joseph22 Turbocharged August 28, 2012 Share August 28, 2012 u can always play chest wif porker bah. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sp4wn Turbocharged August 28, 2012 Share August 28, 2012 I'm married for 4 years but no kids. Not by choice, but due to some medical conditions which both of us are still trying hard to overcome. IMHO, having a kid is not about sending them to enrichment classes and turns them into the best scholars, but nurturing a kid into a fine adult. Of course, all parents wants the best for their kids, but how best is best? I'm sure most of the 70s babies will acknowledge that best in our time is already the worst in this current context. But we all became who we are, doing what we are doing, and earning decently. Is that bad? Sending kids to best childcare may not be the best choice as child will be mingling with kids from rich families, and thus giving growth to the material world mindset. They may even grow up not understanding the hard work their parents had put in order to give them the best environment. what talking you? i know kids whose fathers are Billionaires here... i dont think im materialistic. i go the house see 10-20 cars parked there .. whats the big deal? my parents raise me to appreciate what i have ... and like i said, if i have to sell my car so my kids can enjoy, so be it. you are already thinking of the worst before having kids ... thats not a good sign bro. just be good parents and make sure you raise good people. why must everyones kid be scientist or doctor etc. even my son want to be hair dresser, but he can make money like david gan, then good for him. my job is to just equip him, not tell him how to lead his life... Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Throttle2 Supersonic August 28, 2012 Share August 28, 2012 what talking you? i know kids whose fathers are Billionaires here... i dont think im materialistic. i go the house see 10-20 cars parked there .. whats the big deal? my parents raise me to appreciate what i have ... and like i said, if i have to sell my car so my kids can enjoy, so be it. you are already thinking of the worst before having kids ... thats not a good sign bro. just be good parents and make sure you raise good people. why must everyones kid be scientist or doctor etc. even my son want to be hair dresser, but he can make money like david gan, then good for him. my job is to just equip him, not tell him how to lead his life... eh, you misunderstood him leh. read his post again. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
TVT Supercharged August 28, 2012 Share August 28, 2012 If the condom didn't break, I would still be a single man enjoying happy hour and ladies nights. What brand condom you used? So lousy!!! Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Joseph22 Turbocharged August 28, 2012 Share August 28, 2012 what talking you? i know kids whose fathers are Billionaires here... i dont think im materialistic. i go the house see 10-20 cars parked there .. whats the big deal? my parents raise me to appreciate what i have ... and like i said, if i have to sell my car so my kids can enjoy, so be it. you are already thinking of the worst before having kids ... thats not a good sign bro. just be good parents and make sure you raise good people. why must everyones kid be scientist or doctor etc. even my son want to be hair dresser, but he can make money like david gan, then good for him. my job is to just equip him, not tell him how to lead his life... you relax.. you misread leah. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sp4wn Turbocharged August 28, 2012 Share August 28, 2012 eh, you misunderstood him leh. read his post again. hmm did i? i was only referring to his last line or two though ... Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sp4wn Turbocharged August 28, 2012 Share August 28, 2012 either way, Coolbluewater, if i misunderstood your post, i apologize in advance first! Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jamesc Hypersonic August 28, 2012 Share August 28, 2012 (edited) What brand condom you used? So lousy!!! The famous branded one. Edited August 28, 2012 by Jamesc Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Galantspeedz Turbocharged August 28, 2012 Share August 28, 2012 what talking you? i know kids whose fathers are Billionaires here... i dont think im materialistic. i go the house see 10-20 cars parked there .. whats the big deal? my parents raise me to appreciate what i have ... and like i said, if i have to sell my car so my kids can enjoy, so be it. you are already thinking of the worst before having kids ... thats not a good sign bro. just be good parents and make sure you raise good people. why must everyones kid be scientist or doctor etc. even my son want to be hair dresser, but he can make money like david gan, then good for him. my job is to just equip him, not tell him how to lead his life... There is nothing wrong with 10-20 cars parked there... i think what he meant was the son (A) with the poorer dad may start to compare and wonder why his own dad cannot afford it.... or he may start asking for things that the sons (B,C, D, E) with the richer dad has.... not because they are materialistic but because they will think it is normal.... B,C,D,E will confirm think is normal... and A will also think is normal since B and his friends are like that. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Skunk Clutched August 28, 2012 Share August 28, 2012 Just curious, how many of us here have 3 kids or more? Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
TVT Supercharged August 28, 2012 Share August 28, 2012 The famous branded one. Like that you might as well don't wear condom. You would have enjoyed sex better!!! Also can saved money too! Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Neost 6th Gear August 28, 2012 Share August 28, 2012 The famous branded one. any hints?? Long time never buy so no idea. Use to buy regularly. But after I convince my wife to put IUD (hope the acroymum is correct), bingo, always raw and always safe :D Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Duckduck Turbocharged August 28, 2012 Share August 28, 2012 how many here has or will want 3 kids, AND can live without a car? Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Skunk Clutched August 28, 2012 Share August 28, 2012 how many here has or will want 3 kids, AND can live without a car? I got 3 kids, but cannot live without car lol I guess I'm just spoilt :p Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sp4wn Turbocharged August 28, 2012 Share August 28, 2012 There is nothing wrong with 10-20 cars parked there... i think what he meant was the son (A) with the poorer dad may start to compare and wonder why his own dad cannot afford it.... or he may start asking for things that the sons (B,C, D, E) with the richer dad has.... not because they are materialistic but because they will think it is normal.... B,C,D,E will confirm think is normal... and A will also think is normal since B and his friends are like that. ok i understand your point better now. but i still feel that all this simply boils down to parenting ... i could understand this from young when my dad couldnt afford stuff ... but maybe the younger generation is a lot more different than i may claim to understand i suppose ... Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Galantspeedz Turbocharged August 28, 2012 Share August 28, 2012 my cousin has 5 ↡ Advertisement Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
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