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Bro. I speak Japanese and Taiwanese as well as the locals and you can't even tell, but me not

doing that sort of sex trade lah. [laugh] [laugh]

 

as part of your retirement in future, you can be a pimp for Jap AV gals...... :wub::wub:

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as part of your retirement in future, you can be a pimp for Jap AV gals...... :wub::wub:

 

Joke joke, but one thing you don't know about me is, I honestly pity the women in such trades,

many are forced into such trades against their own will, some loose money, in gambling, get sold

out by their so called boyfriend, husbands, do it because they need money for their parents, some for

their studies, endless reasons, not lame, many are very true, tell me something, who in their right mind would

want to do such a low and filthy job? No women would want to, if given the choice.

 

I never look down on them, and form the bottom of my heart, I pity them. Women who

have husbands to take good care of them sometimes don't know how lucky they are,

same goes for husbands who have good wives.

 

Some fact: Many of these women never live a normal life after, I was in the US for many years

and you would see this famous (porn) actress commit suicide, car accident, drug overdose etc..

and they all were very beautiful. The body can forget, the mind can't.

 

And one thing is I will never do such a thing, it is against my personal principal. Slavery.

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as part of your retirement in future, you can be a pimp for Jap AV gals...... :wub::wub:

Jolly good! And I shall support bro Mazdaowner to be his first customer!!! [:p]

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Joke joke, but one thing you don't know about me is, I honestly pity the women in such trades,

many are forced into such trades against their own will, some loose money, in gambling, get sold

out by their so called boyfriend, husbands, do it because they need money for their parents, some for

their studies, endless reasons, not lame, many are very true, tell me something, who in their right mind would

want to do such a low and filthy job? No women would want to, if given the choice.

 

I never look down on them, and form the bottom of my heart, I pity them. Women who

have husbands to take good care of them sometimes don't know how lucky they are,

same goes for husbands who have good wives.

 

Some fact: Many of these women never live a normal life after, I was in the US for many years

and you would see this famous (porn) actress commit suicide, car accident, drug overdose etc..

and they all were very beautiful. The body can forget, the mind can't.

 

And one thing is I will never do such a thing, it is against my personal principal. Slavery.

In Taiwan, many girls goes into such industry as the day job salary is too little compare to what they can earn from club. Per pop is 7K, 3 times a month can easily cover what they will need to slog in a month on a day job. But once they are in, it's hard to get out of the cycle as they start to buy house, bigger spending lifestyle.... Dunno whether to pity them or not... Many try to look for Japanese sugar daddy and hope to suck as much as they could while they are still appealing...

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In Taiwan, many girls goes into such industry as the day job salary is too little compare to what they can earn from club. Per pop is 7K, 3 times a month can easily cover what they will need to slog in a month on a day job. But once they are in, it's hard to get out of the cycle as they start to buy house, bigger spending lifestyle.... Dunno whether to pity them or not... Many try to look for Japanese sugar daddy and hope to suck as much as they could while they are still appealing...

 

Yes I know, and last time, years ago, I don't know about now, the salesgirls, most of them, moonlight such jobs, and yes I donno to pity them or not, as what I can see now, even sale girls at department stores yearn for branded bags like LV etc.. these I don't pity. Materialistic girls, they have to pay the price for their material wants.

 

Nowadays, wanna look for Japanese Sugar Daddy also close to impossible, Jap girls are look at Chinese men now. [laugh]

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Yea, that's the question I've been asking myself too, what do I hope to achieve 5, 10, 20 years later.... I better be damn well sure I'm able to earn enough there to retire here. Retiring in Japan is never an option....

 

However, in life, there was never a best choice around for you to choose.... I'll just have to choose the best option given to me at the moment. Ideally, I'd like to go to Aussie.... With my wife income alone can survive and retiring there is much more possible, but I still have folks to take care at the moment which I don't see them willing to go over. Also, I'm their only child.

 

Your folks may be willing if you have a real heart to heart talk.

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It really depends on what you want in life. Having worked at Philippines for 3+yrs and another 3+ years while wife is still Singapore all alone by her self, what I can share with you that its not healthy for relationship, eventhough I am granted an air ticket back to Singapore every month.

 

Just ask yourself, who will be there for you when you are down and out? For me, its my family, that's why quit the jobs and now back in Sg but still have frequent trips out.

 

Hope this help.

 

Cheers and have a good long weekend.

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Surprise turn of event..... I was offered a job in government linked agency with salary that could match my current salary, which is beyond my expectation due to lack of paper qualification. They accepted me because the one who appraise me knows me way back and he was the one who chio me to join. However, it is contract based (2 years). I was assured that ALL staff nowadays are on contract basis. Even my wife who is a nurse says so, though she is not in such scheme.... What do you guys think of contract basis? First time embarking on such scheme.... The word "contract" don't dwell in me at all. Feel insecure.

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Surprise turn of event..... I was offered a job in government linked agency with salary that could match my current salary, which is beyond my expectation due to lack of paper qualification. They accepted me because the one who appraise me knows me way back and he was the one who chio me to join. However, it is contract based (2 years). I was assured that ALL staff nowadays are on contract basis. Even my wife who is a nurse says so, though she is not in such scheme.... What do you guys think of contract basis? First time embarking on such scheme.... The word "contract" don't dwell in me at all. Feel insecure.

 

see lah...disturb me and say i haolian....i no tell u.... [laugh][laugh]

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see lah...disturb me and say i haolian....i no tell u.... [laugh][laugh]

Hahahaha.... ok laa sorlee laa sorlee laa.... (tabik tabik tabik)....

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Hahahaha.... ok laa sorlee laa sorlee laa.... (tabik tabik tabik)....

 

u know my no...sing Casket....can call [laugh][laugh][laugh]

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u know my no...sing Casket....can call [laugh][laugh][laugh]

I lost all my number as all the numbers were kept in the SIM card and it went kaput 2 months back... PM me can?

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I lost all my number as all the numbers were kept in the SIM card and it went kaput 2 months back... PM me can?

 

blardi nuisance...... <_< worse than 7 mth ghost...knn

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.... What do you guys think of contract basis? First time embarking on such scheme.... The word "contract" don't dwell in me at all. Feel insecure.

Did the contract guarantee any renewal? Otherwise you see if this govt link firm is stable or not? If stable, then maybe the renewal is sure to happen, after 2 years.

 

But what if you quit before the contract expires, due to some unforeseen reasons? Do you need to compensate them?

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Surprise turn of event..... I was offered a job in government linked agency with salary that could match my current salary, which is beyond my expectation due to lack of paper qualification. They accepted me because the one who appraise me knows me way back and he was the one who chio me to join. However, it is contract based (2 years). I was assured that ALL staff nowadays are on contract basis. Even my wife who is a nurse says so, though she is not in such scheme.... What do you guys think of contract basis? First time embarking on such scheme.... The word "contract" don't dwell in me at all. Feel insecure.

Contract work must be taken with consideration. Not sure about in Gov sector, but for private sectors, its very insecure. They are first to let go at first sign of trouble, & you do not get full benifit of full time stuff. If you get your current pay, why bother anyway (unless you did die have to go oversea if you want your current job), unless there is something you like about the new job.

 

I have not follow up, but whats stopping you from bring your family along? It may not be a negative for your children growth as well, as exposure to other culture & living out of home can be very helpful when they grow up & need to work/do business oversea, & give them bigger perdpective of the world at large. They could also maybe learn to take more resposibility & do some stuff normally hard to do in Singapore.

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Did the contract guarantee any renewal? Otherwise you see if this govt link firm is stable or not? If stable, then maybe the renewal is sure to happen, after 2 years.

 

But what if you quit before the contract expires, due to some unforeseen reasons? Do you need to compensate them?

As I read through, I was given all the benefit just like a perm staff... Leave, medical, insurance, AWS, variable bonus... everything except that it is called a contract. I can't say that it can be guaranteed as I suppose it depend very much on performance and I suppose they want it contract basis so that in case they want to change direction, they can cut stuff easier with lesser baggage. In this case, seems no different from any other private company perm position.... But still, the uneasiness is there...

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Contract work must be taken with consideration. Not sure about in Gov sector, but for private sectors, its very insecure. They are first to let go at first sign of trouble, & you do not get full benifit of full time stuff. If you get your current pay, why bother anyway (unless you did die have to go oversea if you want your current job), unless there is something you like about the new job.

 

I have not follow up, but whats stopping you from bring your family along? It may not be a negative for your children growth as well, as exposure to other culture & living out of home can be very helpful when they grow up & need to work/do business oversea, & give them bigger perdpective of the world at large. They could also maybe learn to take more resposibility & do some stuff normally hard to do in Singapore.

Thanks for the comment....

 

Leaving here is not just for the pay.... I just I lost the drive working here due to a few factors.

 

I would agree with you about bringing family if it is some western country but not Japan.... Language issue and single salary there is tough....

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