Deucedude Neutral Newbie March 5, 2012 Author Share March 5, 2012 (edited) When one day u decide to break up... u break up with her... not her parents leh... funny question you are asking... not like u going for ROM tml and cant make up ur mind today... i dont want to put her in a spot mah, cos if they cant reach me by then, the next best person to pester will be her. Edited March 5, 2012 by Deucedude ↡ Advertisement Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
So_nice 6th Gear March 5, 2012 Share March 5, 2012 juz take it as a casual, simple dinner. dun pressure urself so much. i agreed wif one of the bros tat ur partner is taking the r/s seriously..are u? Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vhtfhwlego Supercharged March 5, 2012 Share March 5, 2012 easy... bring me along . Pay me a price and I will and be with your gf's parent... Everyone will after the dinner.... Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Deucedude Neutral Newbie March 5, 2012 Author Share March 5, 2012 hur... barely meet 2 wks and already want to meet in-laws.... too early or not, wait another few more months lar unless you have piak paik her and caught by her parents ... .. thats why, absurb rite Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dojon 1st Gear March 5, 2012 Share March 5, 2012 Ask her what is the meet up about lo.... dun make assumptions yet ... if she says reasons that you had anticipated then go meet up and wayang abit... IMHO, best place is her house... Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Porker Turbocharged March 5, 2012 Share March 5, 2012 You not even Married to her and your title is Meeting IN LAWs? Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Deucedude Neutral Newbie March 5, 2012 Author Share March 5, 2012 (edited) I pity your situation friend... 2 weeks is just the begining of the fact finding stage, that's barely enough for any long term commitment !! goodness !! How long were you guys dating before being an official couple? But I guess it pretty hard for you to siam since the folks are adamant about the meetup. Just go with it then, but make sure that your partner is mature enough to understand that you're doing it out of respect for her rather than casting your future marriage in stone. excatly. we were dating for 3 mths before being together. it gets a little tricky cos my gf is obviously smart, she is keeping quiet and taking a neutral stand over the whole thing to see how i am gonna react. on the other hand, i do not want to loose favor with her cos she's quite sought after as well. Edited March 5, 2012 by Deucedude Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Deucedude Neutral Newbie March 5, 2012 Author Share March 5, 2012 You not even Married to her and your title is Meeting IN LAWs? ok, my mistake, was too eager to get this off my chest and ask for help Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vhtfhwlego Supercharged March 5, 2012 Share March 5, 2012 excatly. we were dating for 3 mths before being together. it gets a little tricky cos my gf is obviously smart, she is keeping quiet and taking a neutral stand over the who thing to see how i am gonna react. on the other hand, i do not want to loose favor with her cos she's quite sought after as well. just be yourself... In a relationship, I often tell my wifey that there is no right/wrong... So over the course of relationship, you must always tell her your views... If that you decided to back off, it would be easier... Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Deucedude Neutral Newbie March 5, 2012 Author Share March 5, 2012 thanks for all the inputs guys.. ok, lets say I totally refuse to go for the meet up, any advices to make it as convincing and painless as possible? pls note that i do not wish to loose favor with my gf who is obviously smart to leave the ball in my court. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
RadX Moderator March 5, 2012 Share March 5, 2012 take them to hawker centre I normally bring tthem to my workplace, spelt cemetery, and order KFC Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Deucedude Neutral Newbie March 5, 2012 Author Share March 5, 2012 Ask her what is the meet up about lo.... dun make assumptions yet ... if she says reasons that you had anticipated then go meet up and wayang abit... IMHO, best place is her house... I KNOW for sure what it is going to be about and what it will lead to. her parents have also been overly anxious right from the beginning Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
RadX Moderator March 5, 2012 Share March 5, 2012 I KNOW for sure what it is going to be about and what it will lead to. her parents have also been overly anxious right from the beginning er...a bit too fsat to commit leh..... Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Maxus-MIFA9 Supersonic March 5, 2012 Share March 5, 2012 I normally bring tthem to my workplace, spelt cemetery, and order KFC Will they deliver it there in the first place or you simply tar-pau first ... Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ender Hypersonic March 5, 2012 Share March 5, 2012 Why you call them in-law in the 1st place?? Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Maxus-MIFA9 Supersonic March 5, 2012 Share March 5, 2012 Ask her what is the meet up about lo.... who knows, a long list of items as 'peng kim' for TS ... Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Deucedude Neutral Newbie March 5, 2012 Author Share March 5, 2012 er...a bit too fsat to commit leh..... Excatly, thats why I wanna siam. any tips to share Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jman888 Moderator March 5, 2012 Share March 5, 2012 I KNOW for sure what it is going to be about and what it will lead to. her parents have also been overly anxious right from the beginning i think it shows that the parents care for their daughter, if the meet up was casual and pleasant, will be an opportunity to see who you are dealing with. i believe such upbringing is good for the future if you guys get together. there are parents who dun bother about their kids' life, end up been a grandparents without knowing if the kids are married! Just my serious thought! ↡ Advertisement Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
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