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Backstabbing at workplace: R you a victim?


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Depends on how much damage is done, whether there is anything worthwhile left to fight back for.

 

At my last job, where 90% of the department consisted of Chinese north of the Causeway, the 90% jumped on me 1 month after I joined the company after I proved I could troubleshoot and solve an engineeirng issue which left these FTs scratching their thick skulls.

 

From then on, life became hell for me. That Penang POS who was my manager, naturely gave me very bad apprasials based on the twisted reports from his cronies.

 

My biggest mistake was not moving on to another job fast enough,I was too naive and tried to fight a losing battle.

识时务者为俊杰 (Those who suit their actions to the time are wise.)

 

I have since moved on to a new job.

Much happier now though I still have to deal with a couple of unscrupulous people once in a while.

It helps to be ruthless when dealing with trash like them, there is no need to show mercy for they will show show you none.

 

Hope you find your path out soon,

Cheers

 

  On 12/5/2011 at 8:38 AM, Dinosaka said:

Being backstabbed by a fellow colleague that u trusted and lost your job...

 

What's your next move? Find another job n move on?

 

Juz curious....

 

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  On 12/5/2011 at 9:44 AM, Dinosaka said:

The reason I'm curious cos an ex-colleague of mine accused me of backstabbing him...

 

Now he wanted to seek revenge on me...He juz got fired...

 

u nv go clarify the matter? (that is if u didnt backstab him)

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  On 12/6/2011 at 12:21 AM, Rainbowbiatch said:

u nv go clarify the matter? (that is if u didnt backstab him)

 

the last fella who did backstab me ended wiht a heart attack and left the co shortly [laugh][laugh][laugh]

 

thing is, I was there to help him at the point......and to me, i helped.....that was the sweetest revenge.....priceless!

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  On 12/6/2011 at 12:23 AM, RadX said:

the last fella who did backstab me ended wiht a heart attack and left the co shortly [laugh][laugh][laugh]

 

thing is, I was there to help him at the point......and to me, i helped.....that was the sweetest revenge.....priceless!

 

u nv use ur medusa power on him meh?

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  On 12/6/2011 at 12:31 AM, Rainbowbiatch said:

u nv use ur medusa power on him meh?

 

er...why u think he got heart attack....that was just stage 1 warning [laugh][laugh][laugh][laugh]

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Fight on also need to "fight smart", don't continue to fight if it's only for pride and there is a bigger prize to gain by leaving the company for a good raise.

 

Cheers

 

  On 12/5/2011 at 8:43 AM, Sabbie said:

Lost your job means you already lost, so just move on. If haven't lose your job, then fight on.

 

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  On 12/6/2011 at 12:23 AM, RadX said:

the last fella who did backstab me ended wiht a heart attack and left the co shortly [laugh][laugh][laugh]

 

thing is, I was there to help him at the point......and to me, i helped.....that was the sweetest revenge.....priceless!

 

left the company or left earth? [laugh]

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  On 12/6/2011 at 1:27 AM, Greatbirdlegend said:

left the company or left earth? [laugh]

 

application not approved.....still running arnd with metal in heart [laugh][laugh]

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  On 12/6/2011 at 1:40 AM, RadX said:

application not approved.....still running arnd with metal in heart [laugh][laugh]

 

 

you only use half your power? :huh:

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  On 12/6/2011 at 1:42 AM, Jman888 said:

think TS ask if the ex-colleague should let go and move on after been stabbed by him :D

 

knn so he's rejoicing over this?? :huh:

calling Rad, your service is needed here. [laugh]

 

Being backstabbed by a fellow colleague that u trusted and lost your job...

 

What's your next move? Find another job n move on?

 

Juz curious....

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  On 12/5/2011 at 3:32 PM, Ender said:

Not back stabbing. As as security guard, you bound to offend someone as part of your job is to accuse fellow colleague. Watch out for your bmw, coz it may get vandalised.

 

It wasn't me who betrayed him but he accused me of it...

 

My bmmer parked right in front of my post...so he won't able to do funny stuffs to it:)

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  On 12/6/2011 at 12:21 AM, Rainbowbiatch said:

u nv go clarify the matter? (that is if u didnt backstab him)

 

Tried but he being unreasonable n refused to listen to my explanation...

 

He go on rage almost punching me...I told him to move on n find another job since there's plenty of jobs out there for him....

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