Darryn Turbocharged August 29, 2011 Share August 29, 2011 THIS is a revelation NOBODY BLAMED THE GAHMEN [laugh] There is HOPE! [:p] OK... GUYS HAVE TO DO NS - SO THE GIRL SHOULD HAVE DONE HER PART FOR MORE BABIES FOR THE NATION. GUYS HAVE TO SUFFER SO SHOULD SHE!! WE HAVE TO DO NS, GETTING GIRLS PREGGERS IS OUR PAYBACK. Happy now? ↡ Advertisement Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Leo72 6th Gear August 29, 2011 Share August 29, 2011 You know the worst part? The animal refuses to accompany her for the abortion!! I feel like killing him if I could. He merely texted "I will pay for the abortion" *wails*... you know how heartbreaking that is to a woman? yes, the guy is animal. your gf also at fault for wanting to be with the animal. it takes 2 hands to clap. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Raymondism Twincharged August 29, 2011 Share August 29, 2011 In the case of an unwanted pregnancy, who's fault is that? I have a gf who got pregnant lately and her beau chided her for not taking birth control pills. ZOMG!!! some kind of guy that is... worthless trash I say *curses* Prevention of pregnancy is a shared responsibility and us women shouldn't be expected to shoulder this accountability all by ourselves *sings... all... by.... myself.......* Since this is a male dominated arena, I want to hear what guys have to say.... Guys, please shoot, women... please gripe. Also, I believe in karma. Abortion will incur bad karma.. My gf has since undergone abortion and trust me, I still curse that animal responsible every night before I sleep. cursing a person will incur bad karma also... its obvious that both parties at fault... Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Porker Turbocharged August 29, 2011 Share August 29, 2011 All i can say is "if u wanna enjoy, u must accept the outcome". Something like that lah. Guess it will be better if i put it in hokkien Ai hiong siu Ai jiap siu Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Raymondism Twincharged August 29, 2011 Share August 29, 2011 Many a time, guys insist at that crucial point and that it is absolutely safe. We are the ones who miss our periods *cries*. We're the ones who worry - often all by ourselves.... and when we tell our partners, they blame us for being paranoid. If its a shared responsibility, shouldn't guys show some sensitivity? then dun do it... dun hv premarital sex Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Belle_femme Neutral Newbie August 29, 2011 Author Share August 29, 2011 yes, the guy is animal. your gf also at fault for wanting to be with the animal. it takes 2 hands to clap. Leo, nobody wants to be in an unfortunate situation and they will not openly walk into a lion's den. Agree? My gf made a bad judgement. But who's to be blamed for the bad judgement? Lies from men?? sweet nothings that doesn't hold water? think about it?? *frowns* Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Leo72 6th Gear August 29, 2011 Share August 29, 2011 To share the other side of the coin..... My ex-gf dun wan to use rubber......and she dun take birth control pills too.....I am always the one to insist using rubber......sometimes I have to stop her to take rubber and she unhappy...... so not using rubber may not always be the man's idea....... your ex thinks you're the man for her lar... so if got baby, she think you'll married her lor.... or maybe in her mind, she wan the baby lor... Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Raymondism Twincharged August 29, 2011 Share August 29, 2011 Silly to put blame on anyone. If the girl expect the man to take responsibility for such things, then she is stupid and at fault for being innocent and naive. Men only wants to shoot. From day one....it's never the fault of the man to get the girl pregnant. Fault is a blame game. Fault is a failing,flaw,error. The only event is that the man helped the girls got pregnant. Or the man is one half of the event that caused the pregnancy. It cannot be the fault of the man. Moreover the baby is not born yet, so how can you say the man is irresponsible? Dear woman.....in sexual intercourse the man job is to ejaculate out the sperm into the hole. At that moment in time, I am sure you girls allowed it. But what happen to the sperm inside your body, we man got no control over it. Your eggs and body accepted it....so it's definately 100% your body fault!! Before marriage...it's 100% the girls fault for opening her gate. She is the one that is carrying the baby. In crime, the one holding on to the drugs or stolen goods is the one at fault for being stupid to be caught out. cannot say 100% fault of the girl la Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Belle_femme Neutral Newbie August 29, 2011 Author Share August 29, 2011 cursing a person will incur bad karma also... its obvious that both parties at fault... the cause of the situation - both parties are at fault but the manner it is resolved, is it fair to say that the guy was being insensitive and a jerk? Money doesn't solve the problem all the time Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Porker Turbocharged August 29, 2011 Share August 29, 2011 It's ultimately YOUR fault for not warning your friend. And here you are trying to blame the guy as expected from any woman Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Belle_femme Neutral Newbie August 29, 2011 Author Share August 29, 2011 then dun do it... dun hv premarital sex Realistically speaking, it takes lots of discipline to abstain. I admit I can't *shame*.... which of you around here can ? Seriously, I doubt Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Darryn Turbocharged August 29, 2011 Share August 29, 2011 Leo, nobody wants to be in an unfortunate situation and they will not openly walk into a lion's den. Agree? My gf made a bad judgement. But who's to be blamed for the bad judgement? Lies from men?? sweet nothings that doesn't hold water? think about it?? *frowns* To be brutally frank - BOTH OF THEM. As a general life lesson - if it's not written into the contract* don't believe it!! Don't put your faith in "the goodness of the other party" to avoid a bad outcome. * No I am not so stupid as to compare relationships to "a contract" - but the philosophy holds. If he won't put his money where his mouth is, don't beleive him. If he won't make a solid commitment to him, those "sweet nothings" are little more than grease to get your pants off faster. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Raymondism Twincharged August 29, 2011 Share August 29, 2011 To share the other side of the coin..... My ex-gf dun wan to use rubber......and she dun take birth control pills too.....I am always the one to insist using rubber......sometimes I have to stop her to take rubber and she unhappy...... so not using rubber may not always be the man's idea....... agree Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Darryn Turbocharged August 29, 2011 Share August 29, 2011 Realistically speaking, it takes lots of discipline to abstain. I admit I can't *shame*.... which of you around here can ? Seriously, I doubt By the way - just as an FYI - if you really really must do bare back, at least get a bj to completion first - the second time round you are "less fertile" (the risk still there, but is lesser as there will be lesser tadpoles in the second shot in a given night) Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Raymondism Twincharged August 29, 2011 Share August 29, 2011 Ai hiong siu Ai jiap siu 要享受就要忍受(接受) Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Belle_femme Neutral Newbie August 29, 2011 Author Share August 29, 2011 It's ultimately YOUR fault for not warning your friend. And here you are trying to blame the guy as expected from any woman Heavens, and now it has became my fault. *frowns* I wish I could have warned her earlier. but who would have expected such an outcome. It is normal for couples to be sexually active and when trouble arises, the guy absolve responsibilities. I'm not blaming guys in general, I said earlier, it is a shared responsibility, but the matter it was handled by the guy, its not acceptable. Should he be blamed for his insensitive manner of handling the situation? If you think what he did was right, its your view, I've no right to diss that. I just hope then, that you do not have sisters or daughters who face the same plight and gets the same treatment from such a guy, with such actions. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Raymondism Twincharged August 29, 2011 Share August 29, 2011 Realistically speaking, it takes lots of discipline to abstain. I admit I can't *shame*.... which of you around here can ? Seriously, I doubt well.. i cant but so far no accident.. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Raymondism Twincharged August 29, 2011 Share August 29, 2011 Leo, nobody wants to be in an unfortunate situation and they will not openly walk into a lion's den. Agree? My gf made a bad judgement. But who's to be blamed for the bad judgement? Lies from men?? sweet nothings that doesn't hold water? think about it?? *frowns* so u r saying that your gf is stupid? ↡ Advertisement Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
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