What will you do if your son is being bullied in Primary sch

[Csnewbie]

i beat up the bully's parents....hahahaha...

rape the bully's mother lagi better.

[Good-Carbuyer]

If your son is constantly being bullied (slap, pinch etc...) by a bully ...what will you do?

And what happens if the teacher has already told the bully but still the same?

Survival learning among lessons school can teach. During my school days, I taught a kid brother and the one who bullied him: there is always a bigger bully around (me).

[Good-Carbuyer]

lol this thread remind me of a bully when im in my pri school, i go home cry to my parent abt the bully, they all dun seem to care. One day i cannot take it anymore, the bully approach me, kick him, grab his shirt, swing him to the ground, scold him some hokkien vulgar, his shirt button a few come out, saw him wipe off his tears from his eyes, from that day onward, he dun dare approach me anymore. I think this method work during my days, but dunno now can work or not.

Well done. I did the same when I encountered the same situation. My mom told me to enjoy the bullying when I reported it to her (she illiterate and did not know our freedom/rights to survive without being bullied).

[Trex101]

How old is your kid? i believe the only way to stop bullying is for your kid to stand up to the bully, give the fella a few good punch and kick. no other way.

[Good-Carbuyer]

Will ask my son to beat him up.

 

The younger generation need some toughing up. Anyway, it is only at this age which they can beat up pples & getting away with it. haha

Someone explained to me how to do it and get away legally, regardless of age.

[Good-Carbuyer]

Every son who ever experienced bullies should learn how to get even. It is not what is called "correct" in school, but it's all part of growing up as a man.

I call that human rights/independence

[Biglittlebean]

In the case your child is bullied, do find out more details from him first, such as what the bully did, or why he did it. Do communicate with the form teacher via phonecalls, handbook or emails about your concerns and ask the teacher to investigate. Sometimes, children will just tell selective facts to the parents so that they will look like the victim. Never confront the other parent or even the other child as this will escalate matters. Most importantly, assure your child that the school is a safe place and he can always tell his teacher about the matter. If nothing is being addressed, you should then go to the discipline master or the principal.

[Good-Carbuyer]

My boy(pri 1 then) encounter 3 bully in his school playground while playing, they push him and drag his foot on the playground.

 

My boy give 1 fella a kick on the face, mouth bleeding. the 2nd a punch on his lip and the 3rd a few punch and kick and they all run away. After sometime, my boy told me they are now his friends and play together now always. well kids...

Was told normal culture/practice for Japanese kids to try bulling anyone stranger(s) they meet (including adults).

[Good-Carbuyer]

Grand slam

 

 

edit: embed youtube video

That bully got his bullying education: chapter two, free

 

[Raymondism]

think i m going to offend pple again

i dun hv kids...

but when i was a boy... i dun go home to tell my father or mother someone has bullied me...

i dun tell teacher also...

against bullies my age... i will fight.. cos i always kenna bashed up at home by my elder bro who is 5 yrs older...

so fighting a primary sch kid is nuthing to shout...

after a while.. strangely no one come provoke me...

 

one fine day the biggest bully in school who is 2 yrs older come ask me for money..

i tell him.. no money.... (the truth is parents dun give me lotsa money so i usu spend all lol).. straight in the face....

if u wan.. follow me home and i ask my brother for money to give u...

then he say nevermind.....

 

nowadays parents over-react.. small things complain to teacher and worse.. complain to MOE against teacher...

parents din realise that they are responsible for teaching their kids the right way to behave.... and stand up for themselves... not teachers...

三字经 says 养不教，父之过

 

 

of cos i understand... both father and mother gotta work to stay in a nice flat, drive car and go for holiday every yr... still... its a choice..

Edited July 23, 2011 by Raymondism

[Good-Carbuyer]

I will tell my son to try to avoid being near to the bully. Sit away from him and don't talk to him.

 

 

If bully still do naughty stunts.......(no point to talk to the bully parents, as they will be offensive and challenge you to make police report, if there is a crime or wrongdoing with sufficient proof).

 

The next step is to bait the bully after school, follow him back to his residence.

I will make sure the whole block knows his son is a bully in class, pasting notices about his naughty ways.

This will make the bully parents angry enough to go to school to find out what is the real problem!! Better still if the parent make a police report. The onus is for the bully kid to learn that he will be a police case if he still dare to bully his classmate. His parents has done him in, indirectly if he is still remain a bully!!

This way, the principle and teach will be involved. They will monitor the bully to see whether he is indeed pushing and pinching other kids around!!!

 

I have learned...the teacher will never listen to a plea and help from a victim, as that's a sign of weak kids and weak parents.

 

But when a fierce and demanding parents go to school and accuse the teacher and principle of accusing his kids of wrong doing. The teacher will sit up and play ball and watch out for the bully and it's victims!!

I suppose you are right if your son really can not look after himself. But what if you are no longer around? Who can help look after him?

 

[Good-Carbuyer]

So many students in school, should examine why the son is picked on.

 

The victim is not always the victim.

 

Or something strange about son?

Could be part of cultivating leadership identification among people growing up.

[Raymondism]

Could be part of cultivating leadership identification among people growing up.

 

bro.. its singaporean culture to complain.. so must start at young age.... thus primary sch kids also love to complain...

last time if i tell my father i kena bully... i think he will think i very free dun study go mix with weird pple...

in the end i din do well for PSLE.... maybe the education system think i dunno how to complain so moderate my PSLE marks...

cannot go RI

 

[Good-Carbuyer]

If u're getting bullied, there must be a reason why u're getting picked on ...

 

Address that and the bullying will stop.

As shown on that video?

[Good-Carbuyer]

Haha, that boy is asking for it. Trying to be a hero. Kenna slammed liao cannot even walk properly.

I thought the smaller sized kid was only looking for trouble for himself. He was finally rewarded by his victim.

[Good-Carbuyer]

Teaching a kids to fight back has double edge at a young age in Singapore.

Done well....he feels confident and become more confident.

Done wrong....get into police case....scarred for life.

 

I think fight back is batter at older age....like in JC. Definitely after some major exams like O's.

If he get into trouble....at least his youth education is complete and can still survive somehow in siingapore.

Well done, if can survive being bullied from day one schooling till JC. Salute.

[Good-Carbuyer]

i beat up the bully's parents....hahahaha...

Well done.

[Good-Carbuyer]

rape the bully's mother lagi better.

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