What will you do if your son is being bullied in Primary sch

[Gaukeechee]

If your son is constantly being bullied (slap, pinch etc...) by a bully ...what will you do?

And what happens if the teacher has already told the bully but still the same?

[HOUSENUMBER]

but sometimes looking for the bully's parents u might meet them to be unreasonable

[Curahee]

lol this thread remind me of a bully when im in my pri school, i go home cry to my parent abt the bully, they all dun seem to care. One day i cannot take it anymore, the bully approach me, kick him, grab his shirt, swing him to the ground, scold him some hokkien vulgar, his shirt button a few come out, saw him wipe off his tears from his eyes, from that day onward, he dun dare approach me anymore. I think this method work during my days, but dunno now can work or not.

[Ladykillerz]

this is a tough qns.

it depends on different scenario but similar situation.

 

maybe by telling the teacher might help but might not too.

maybe by talking to the bully's parents might help but might not too.

 

this option: "I will look for the bully and beat him up"

definitely sound funny but if everything cannot change this bully's behavior, something got to it, just do it. =x

 

Btw, i did not vote hor. Lolx. =P

[Mllcg]

are u hot tempered or cool tempered?

 

i will either scold the student or threaten him.

[Nightsky]

this option: "I will look for the bully and beat him up"

definitely sound funny but if everything cannot change this bully's behavior, something got to it, just do it. =x

 

Btw, i did not vote hor. Lolx. =P

 

anyone bully my princess, i will

 

杀无舍

[Ladykillerz]

anyone bully my princess, i will

 

杀无舍

 

you don't quote me lah.

i won't bully your princess one.

[Shinigaimi]

Will ask my son to beat him up.

 

The younger generation need some toughing up. Anyway, it is only at this age which they can beat up pples & getting away with it. haha

[A5SB]

Will ask my son to beat him up.

 

The younger generation need some toughing up. Anyway, it is only at this age which they can beat up pples & getting away with it. haha

Every son who ever experienced bullies should learn how to get even. It is not what is called "correct" in school, but it's all part of growing up as a man.

[Trex101]

My boy(pri 1 then) encounter 3 bully in his school playground while playing, they push him and drag his foot on the playground.

 

My boy give 1 fella a kick on the face, mouth bleeding. the 2nd a punch on his lip and the 3rd a few punch and kick and they all run away. After sometime, my boy told me they are now his friends and play together now always. well kids...

[Solar]

Grand slam

 

 

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Edited July 22, 2011 by Solar

[SimonTan]

I will tell my son to try to avoid being near to the bully. Sit away from him and don't talk to him.

 

 

If bully still do naughty stunts.......(no point to talk to the bully parents, as they will be offensive and challenge you to make police report, if there is a crime or wrongdoing with sufficient proof).

 

The next step is to bait the bully after school, follow him back to his residence.

I will make sure the whole block knows his son is a bully in class, pasting notices about his naughty ways.

This will make the bully parents angry enough to go to school to find out what is the real problem!! Better still if the parent make a police report. The onus is for the bully kid to learn that he will be a police case if he still dare to bully his classmate. His parents has done him in, indirectly if he is still remain a bully!!

This way, the principle and teach will be involved. They will monitor the bully to see whether he is indeed pushing and pinching other kids around!!!

 

I have learned...the teacher will never listen to a plea and help from a victim, as that's a sign of weak kids and weak parents.

 

But when a fierce and demanding parents go to school and accuse the teacher and principle of accusing his kids of wrong doing. The teacher will sit up and play ball and watch out for the bully and it's victims!!

 

[Tonyng]

 

So many students in school, should examine why the son is picked on.

 

The victim is not always the victim.

 

Or something strange about son?

 

 

 

 

[Cybernation]

Send your son to taekwondo or any martial arts classes to toughen him up. Teach him to use it for self defense. The next time a slap approaching his face will never reach his face.

[Lala81]

If u're getting bullied, there must be a reason why u're getting picked on ...

 

Address that and the bullying will stop.

 

 

Edited July 23, 2011 by Lala81

[Jamstart]

Grand slam

 

 

edit: embed youtube video

Haha, that boy is asking for it. Trying to be a hero. Kenna slammed liao cannot even walk properly.

[SimonTan]

Teaching a kids to fight back has double edge at a young age in Singapore.

Done well....he feels confident and become more confident.

Done wrong....get into police case....scarred for life.

 

I think fight back is batter at older age....like in JC. Definitely after some major exams like O's.

If he get into trouble....at least his youth education is complete and can still survive somehow in siingapore.

 

[Rncw]

i beat up the bully's parents....hahahaha...