Malaysia's "obedient wives" anger rights groups

[Greatbirdlegend]

 

Malaysia always have the more fun and happening clubs than us.

 

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Malaysia's "obedient wives" anger rights groups

Reuters

Sun, Jun 05, 2011

 

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KUALA LUMPUR - A Malaysian group urging wives to avoid marital problems by fulfilling their husbands' sexual desires like prostitutes has angered politicians and women's rights groups, the New Straits Times reported on Sunday.

 

The Obedient Wives Club, which was set up by a group of Muslim women, said domestic violence, infidelity and prostitution stemmed from a lack of belief in God and a failure of women to satisfy their husbands.

 

The club's president, Rohaya Mohamed, said it was open to women of all religions and would conduct seminars on how to be a good wife as well as offer marriage counseling.

 

"A man married to a woman who is as good or better than a prostitute in bed has no reason to stray. Rather than allowing him to sin, a woman must do all she can to ensure his desires are met," Rohaya told the newspaper.

 

Females outnumber males in Malaysian higher education institutions, comprising 65 percent of the intake at public universities last year, according to government data.

 

But rights groups say women are still often victims of gender bias, and have protested what they considered the club's demeaning portrayal of women as a cause of social problems.

 

"Abusive men often use women's behaviour as a sick justification, but in the end, their actions are their responsibility," said Ratna Osman, acting executive director at rights group Sisters-in-Islam.

 

"To hinge fidelity, domestic violence and the fulfilment of a husband's responsibilities purely on a wife's capacity to be obedient, stimulate sexual arousal ... is not only demeaning to wives, but to husbands as well," said Women, Family and Community Development Minister Shahrizat Jalil.

[The_Bear]

  On 6/6/2011 at 3:07 AM, Greatbirdlegend said:

Malaysia always have the more fun and happening clubs than us.

 

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Malaysia's "obedient wives" anger rights groups

Reuters

Sun, Jun 05, 2011

 

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KUALA LUMPUR - A Malaysian group urging wives to avoid marital problems by fulfilling their husbands' sexual desires like prostitutes has angered politicians and women's rights groups, the New Straits Times reported on Sunday.

 

The Obedient Wives Club, which was set up by a group of Muslim women, said domestic violence, infidelity and prostitution stemmed from a lack of belief in God and a failure of women to satisfy their husbands.

 

The club's president, Rohaya Mohamed, said it was open to women of all religions and would conduct seminars on how to be a good wife as well as offer marriage counseling.

 

"A man married to a woman who is as good or better than a prostitute in bed has no reason to stray. Rather than allowing him to sin, a woman must do all she can to ensure his desires are met," Rohaya told the newspaper.

 

Females outnumber males in Malaysian higher education institutions, comprising 65 percent of the intake at public universities last year, according to government data.

 

But rights groups say women are still often victims of gender bias, and have protested what they considered the club's demeaning portrayal of women as a cause of social problems.

 

"Abusive men often use women's behaviour as a sick justification, but in the end, their actions are their responsibility," said Ratna Osman, acting executive director at rights group Sisters-in-Islam.

 

"To hinge fidelity, domestic violence and the fulfilment of a husband's responsibilities purely on a wife's capacity to be obedient, stimulate sexual arousal ... is not only demeaning to wives, but to husbands as well," said Women, Family and Community Development Minister Shahrizat Jalil.

 

Cool, when do we start stoning them?

[Jman888]

  On 6/6/2011 at 3:08 AM, Bavarian said:

Cool, when do we start stoning them?

 

 

the man or the woman

[Greatbirdlegend]

  On 6/6/2011 at 3:08 AM, Bavarian said:

Cool, when do we start stoning them?

 

Go Boleh Land and start a club.

I'm sure you will find a lot of supporters eager to join.

[LoverofCar]

So do they conduct any sexual intercourse related siminar?

[Whathefish]

  On 6/6/2011 at 3:07 AM, Greatbirdlegend said:

KUALA LUMPUR - A Malaysian group urging wives to avoid marital problems by fulfilling their husbands' sexual desires like prostitutes has angered politicians and women's rights groups, the New Straits Times reported on Sunday.

The main reason y men find prostitutes is different faces (something new)...they should like 变脸 from Sichuan China instead...

[Greatbirdlegend]

  On 6/6/2011 at 3:13 AM, LoverofCar said:

So do they conduct any sexual intercourse related siminar?

 

OWC to offer sex lessons?

[Mydotcom]

Can we invite them to setup a branch in SG?

[Joseph22]

Can anyone tell me why human rights group or women rights group that had been fighting for freedom for everyone get angry with these women for exercising their rights to be obedient wives??

[The_Bear]

  On 6/6/2011 at 3:12 AM, Jman888 said:

the man or the woman

 

normally they stone the women. But we can stone the men and take the women.

[Tigerwoods]

  On 6/6/2011 at 8:31 AM, Joseph22 said:

Can anyone tell me why human rights group or women rights group that had been fighting for freedom for everyone get angry with these women for exercising their rights to be obedient wives??

J22,

The wives are to do WHATEVER the Prostitutes do...

Bondage, Sadistic, Anal, Oral, Sandwich, 3-somes, orgies, etc,

(just typing this gives me the creeps)

 

Its degrading to wives... unless this group of women find such acts very tempting ?

 

Frankly most will not be able to go for Sandwich, 3-somes, orgies so only solve 50% of the problem I think...

[Unidentified]

  On 6/6/2011 at 8:39 AM, Tigerwoods said:

J22,

The wives are to do WHATEVER the Prostitutes do...

Bondage, Sadistic, Anal, Oral, Sandwich, 3-somes, orgies, etc,

(just typing this gives me the creeps)

 

Its degrading to wives... unless this group of women find such acts very tempting ?

 

Frankly most will not be able to go for Sandwich, 3-somes, orgies so only solve 50% of the problem I think...

 

so their principle is the wife must be a sex toy to the man.only babi believe this thing work.

the babi will still continue to rape and fxxk other girls outside.

[Tigerwoods]

  On 6/6/2011 at 8:44 AM, Unidentified said:

so their principle is the wife must be a sex toy to the man.only babi believe this thing work.

the babi will still continue to rape and fxxk other girls outside.

Pls do not type racist remarks in a public forum.

 

[Joseph22]

  On 6/6/2011 at 8:39 AM, Tigerwoods said:

J22,

The wives are to do WHATEVER the Prostitutes do...

Bondage, Sadistic, Anal, Oral, Sandwich, 3-somes, orgies, etc,(just typing this gives me the creeps)

 

Its degrading to wives... unless this group of women find such acts very tempting ?

 

Frankly most will not be able to go for Sandwich, 3-somes, orgies so only solve 50% of the problem I think...

 

 

Err... obviously these group of wives find it ermmm.... tempting that is why they join these club mah

 

dont forget, Muslim can have up to 4 wives if the original wife allow. (dont know about the rest of the terms and condition.)

 

unless you mean to include another guy.. which i believe the husband wont allow.

Edited June 6, 2011 by Joseph22

[Rainbowbiatch]

this is just... vy degrading la. their thinking still very backward...

[Tigerwoods]

  On 6/6/2011 at 8:55 AM, Joseph22 said:

Err... obviously these group of wives find it ermmm.... tempting that is why they join these club mah

 

dont forget, Muslim can have up to 4 wives if the original wife allow. (dont know about the rest of the terms and condition.)

 

unless you mean to include another guy.. which i believe the husband wont allow.

Basically those who stray to Pros, could not afford 4 wives or 1st Wife don't allow.

Frankly the problem stems from the Morality level of the Men.

Obviously the moral standards are already really low given the fact this group of women can think of such ploys to "Lure" their husbands back to their home Beds...

 

[Tigerwoods]

Question :

Do you guys mind if your wives, dress, flirts, performs like a Whore to you and you only.

You all will stop dipping your sticks outside ?

 

 

[Rainbowbiatch]

  On 6/6/2011 at 9:02 AM, Tigerwoods said:

Question :

Do you guys mind if your wives, dress, flirts, performs like a Whore to you and you only.

You all will stop dipping your sticks outside ?

 

the other question is, (sorry i eternal feminist on things like this) why muz the woman resort to this just to keep man by their side?

i mean, wives dress up/ role play /bondage etc, in the name of fun. or surprise. u know? happy things?

not do all that just to keep the man.

 

if the man is easily strayed, not worth keeping rite?