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How would do define success for yourself and how does that differ or similiar to what the average Singaporean thinks of as success.

 

Most of us will admit having money is important as a criteria for a defined successfully peson, but what is it that you would wish to do with that money. Buy cars or property so that others will defined you as successful or get your children to the Harvard or Oxford or buying all the blink gold chains to show you have the $? Or even having people love you can be a define successful person?

 

How would you define success?

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A successful person start from HOME.....

 

No point be seen as successful to the whole world, friends, colleague, etc but was disrespect in the family, wife and children.

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Success to me is when u r happy with yourself and everyone revolving ard u..

 

Simply put, when 1 is happy on a daily basis..

 

Trust me, no amount of money or material fulfillment can bring u happiness in the long term..

 

It's only when u learn to be happy then imo, u r successful in life and live a life worthwhile..

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How would you define success?

 

Successful people can afford to buy a car.

The more successful you are, the bigger or faster your car.

 

Those 4,500,000 not unsuccessful squeeze in public transport.

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Successful people can afford to buy a car.

The more successful you are, the bigger or faster your car.

 

Those 4,500,000 not unsuccessful squeeze in public transport.

 

I know sure there will someone be say car is not equal to success, blah blah blah......

Sell you car and go squeeze in public transport please.

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self contentment....when u can hit that equilibrium (regardless of how much u earn/possess), u are truly happy and thus u are successful in life...

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How would do define success for yourself and how does that differ or similiar to what the average Singaporean thinks of as success.

 

Most of us will admit having money is important as a criteria for a defined successfully peson, but what is it that you would wish to do with that money. Buy cars or property so that others will defined you as successful or get your children to the Harvard or Oxford or buying all the blink gold chains to show you have the $? Or even having people love you can be a define successful person?

 

How would you define success?

 

i'll be successful when im dead. cos life sucks.

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A successful person start from HOME.....

 

No point be seen as successful to the whole world, friends, colleague, etc but was disrespect in the family, wife and children.

 

修身, 齐家, 治国, 平天下. [gossip]

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Errrr.... Imo, There is no one standard "success" reference. Each person has its own benchmark of their own perceived reference. Some use $$$ as refernce, and some use happiness, some go with car size , etc.... So, no point comparing, if one feel they have succeeded, good, if feel like not there yet, put in moire effort to make it happen lor...

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No right definition. Is subjective and up to personal preference.

 

I guess worldly success means you have lots of money and status. I guess spiritual success (as a chritian POV) means you are at peace with god and able to cast out your worldly desires and follow the bible.

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How would do define success for yourself and how does that differ or similiar to what the average Singaporean thinks of as success.

 

Most of us will admit having money is important as a criteria for a defined successfully peson, but what is it that you would wish to do with that money. Buy cars or property so that others will defined you as successful or get your children to the Harvard or Oxford or buying all the blink gold chains to show you have the $? Or even having people love you can be a define successful person?

 

How would you define success?

 

i go on holidays whenever i want, i dun have to worry about bills, i reach home mon-fri before 7pm. I can buy big ticket items like computer, TV, etc without thinking if it is within budget. my car is paid up.

 

yes i am successful... not because i am rich but i am sufficient and i believe in quality of life....

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A successful person start from HOME.....

 

No point be seen as successful to the whole world, friends, colleague, etc but was disrespect in the family, wife and children.

 

Wah you actually make sense, totally agree.. [laugh]

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Wah you actually make sense, totally agree.. [laugh]

 

you mean i wasn't before [laugh] [laugh]

 

i have a relative who is in that position, sad to see him when he was with the his family [:/]

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you mean i wasn't before [laugh] [laugh]

 

i have a relative who is in that position, sad to see him when he was with the his family [:/]

 

[:p]

 

What did he actually do, or not do rather?

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i go on holidays whenever i want, i dun have to worry about bills, i reach home mon-fri before 7pm. I can buy big ticket items like computer, TV, etc without thinking if it is within budget. my car is paid up.

 

yes i am successful... not because i am rich but i am sufficient and i believe in quality of life....

 

What you have described is contentment, but I appreciate that part of being successful is being able to achieve contentment [thumbsup]

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