Can you stop comparing?

[Cootie-Monster]

I was wondering how many can go through life without comparing with others.

 

Do you feel the need to compare all types of things from cars, housing, jobs, salary, girlfriend, results etc?

 

Is comparing good or bad? On one hand, maybe it motivates people to improve. On the other hand, it creates pointless stress.

[Benarsenal]

Yes I agree. Pointless comparing.

 

Everyone is different. Be satisfied with what you are. Otherwise, do something to change it.

[Jman888]

yes, when you get older [laugh]

[Darthrevan]

comparing is good..provided u compare with you and yourself..challenge urself to a newer height everyday..like today I sweep the floor in 2mins..tml i wanna sweep it in 1min59secs..personal best record!

[Yuan]

  On 7/19/2010 at 4:37 AM, Cootie-Monster said:

I was wondering how many can go through life without comparing with others.

 

Do you feel the need to compare all types of things from cars, housing, jobs, salary, girlfriend, results etc?

 

Is comparing good or bad? On one hand, maybe it motivates people to improve. On the other hand, it creates pointless stress.

 

Just ignore those people who likes to compare or their lives are all about comparing.

 

 

[Zyx]

complaining and comparing, are bits and pieces of life. sigh

[Freestylers09]

nothing special...

 

for me i live for myself..not in eye of others..

 

i always du them back.."so if i think u are ugly..will u go and die?"

[Throttle2]

At the end of the day, the true race is with yourself.

 

Really....

[Cootie-Monster]

I am a serial comparer.... how?

Even at the urinal, I try to sneak a peek left and right.

[Darryn]

  On 7/19/2010 at 4:37 AM, Cootie-Monster said:

I was wondering how many can go through life without comparing with others.

 

Do you feel the need to compare all types of things from cars, housing, jobs, salary, girlfriend, results etc?

 

Is comparing good or bad? On one hand, maybe it motivates people to improve. On the other hand, it creates pointless stress.

 

good compared to what?

bad compared to what?

We need some point of reference so that we know if is good or bad..

[Zacxaviqer]

  On 7/19/2010 at 4:44 AM, Benarsenal said:

Yes I agree. Pointless comparing.

 

Everyone is different. Be satisfied with what you are. Otherwise, do something to change it.

 

 

Without comparing, how do u know wat next to change in order to improve it?

[Simplesilver]

  On 7/19/2010 at 6:40 AM, Darthrevan said:

comparing is good..provided u compare with you and yourself..challenge urself to a newer height everyday..like today I sweep the floor in 2mins..tml i wanna sweep it in 1min59secs..personal best record!

 

All under the carpet or the sofa?

[Zniper]

this is life bro TS... ppl like to compare and complain here in sg, if u dun like dan dun look at their comments... i oso nv look at their comments...

[SimonTan]

I think comparing is in-built nature.

Its part and parcel of making decisions and choices.

Cannot avoid it.

 

[Darthrevan]

  On 7/19/2010 at 8:58 AM, Simplesilver said:

All under the carpet or the sofa?

 

I lick it up!

[Ender]

No choice, this is life. When we have many choices, we have to compare. Right now I'm comparing the pro & cons, prices between a few brands of daily disposable contacvt lens. Being a newbie, naturally insecruity set in, and have to compare and compare again. I've been repeating this several times lia for a few days.

[RadX]

sometimes when life is down, compare down to life your spirits up and realise that you are not that bad off....

 

when life is up, compare up to realise that you need not be a cokky b------d and that there is alwes someone better than you so go sit one corner and cry

[Hiphiphoray]

Basket.....this sort of thing u also compare.

 

  On 7/19/2010 at 8:26 AM, Cootie-Monster said:

I am a serial comparer.... how?

Even at the urinal, I try to sneak a peek left and right.