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I am early 40s and single. I look at the wife of most of my friend and thinking i can't make myself to make love to this type of women!

and like what pple said - HTF? then i look in the mirror.. oh well

Beauty is thru the eyes of the Beholder...

If you ever got married, your friends might "think" the same as you too...

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Beauty is thru the eyes of the Beholder...

If you ever got married, your friends might "think" the same as you too...

 

Precisely. That's why sometime its a vicious cycle. you look them no up they look you no up! which explain the decline of number of people getting hitch.

Hey if you read the news about this big size beauty pageant, even fat lady got high standard when come to their potential partner.

 

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You are very right!

 

Ask Me, the person who you want to hear most.

Single + Middle Age.

Yes, I am odd, simply because I cannot stay interest to a same thing or person for more than 3 years. This is my nature.

 

hmmm... this sounds so like my sister that I'm staying with... but she's worst than you... say maybe 3 weeks? She lost interest liao... I mean not lost interest in a person, anything...if I have ever seen her go for a date till now 37.

 

But I really dunno something wrong with her or what... she keep everything to herself, she bochap about everything, housework, parents, her siblings (me inclusive), her pet dog..... erh at least she mops the floor but I will have to shut myself in room cos when she mop the floor, is like going to war...she will just bang anything with the mop that block her way :wacko:

 

we never tall to each other...unless any request, will also be done thru email or sms, be it both are at home!

 

her life is work, home, sleep at 9pm, sat and sun stay whole day at home watch tv or sleep. Only interest that last till now is weight training in the gym after work or weekend.... so do you call that weird? :wacko:

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Ppl who are married always want the singles ard them to get married...

 

yeah, whenever I go lunch with my lunch of colleagues (all married) sure one by one ask me when is my turn... maybe I should just tell them I am GAY to shut them off [laugh]

My parents and relatives don't even bother to nag at me [cool]

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Turbocharged

Sounds like volcano waiting to explode anytime.

 

Wow, can sleep at 9pm daily. I struggle to be able to get into bed by 11.30pm.

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In my age group, my Male single friends are either:

1) Playboyish, handsome-looking types who like to chiong but dun wanna settle down

2) Decent guys who look plain and not very outgoing....maybe abit lacking in charisma but they are really not bad in character.

 

 

In my age group, my Female single friends are either:

1) just broke up

2) not in the "pretty" cat, not even "normal" cat...usually the plump ones or full of pimples, ugly betty type

3) woman power! career first, guys can wait, they are quite pretty ones are very outgoing and attractive

 

So far none of them potrait serious character issues.....except for a few (both sexes also have)

 

You forget to add in for your male single group of friends

 

3) G A Y [laugh]

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Precisely. That's why sometime its a vicious cycle. you look them no up they look you no up! which explain the decline of number of people getting hitch.

Hey if you read the news about this big size beauty pageant, even fat lady got high standard when come to their potential partner.

Whats wrong being big sized, small size, out of shape, not so good looking, plain jane etc ?

There is no such thing as an Ugly person. Only an Ugly Character.

 

If you continue the way you see things purely on the external face value, you are a product of the new world order.

I don't blame you, I blame the Media. Everyday we are bombarded by Ads, in Billboards, Newspapers, Mags, TVs, Mobile phones, with pictures telling you their version of Beauty perfection. We are so brainwashed till our internal value system are rebooted to think, feel, expect nothing less than perfection.

 

Then - you realised you can't get it, you stay single, as you'd rather go single than to settle for "something you cannot bring yourself to make love to".

 

Look at Korea - more than half of the girls age 17+ have some form of Plastic surgery and its an accepted tradition by their parents...

 

Vanity is the 1st worse sin, 2nd is Pride, a product of Vanity...

 

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hmmm... this sounds so like my sister that I'm staying with... but she's worst than you... say maybe 3 weeks? She lost interest liao... I mean not lost interest in a person, anything...if I have ever seen her go for a date till now 37.

 

But I really dunno something wrong with her or what... she keep everything to herself, she bochap about everything, housework, parents, her siblings (me inclusive), her pet dog..... erh at least she mops the floor but I will have to shut myself in room cos when she mop the floor, is like going to war...she will just bang anything with the mop that block her way :wacko:

 

we never tall to each other...unless any request, will also be done thru email or sms, be it both are at home!

 

her life is work, home, sleep at 9pm, sat and sun stay whole day at home watch tv or sleep. Only interest that last till now is weight training in the gym after work or weekend.... so do you call that weird? :wacko:

She has reach this realm :

Worked till Work becometh You.

 

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Had a chat with someone. He mentioned that if someone can remain single into middle aged, he / she must have some character issues. Maybe they are too snobbish, standard too high, anti-social or just plain insufferable. Do you agree with this comment?

 

Extrapolating further, does marriage indicate someone is normal and functional within the context of society?

 

Yes. Not some but lots of issues.

May be perverted or something whacko with the brain cells

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I am early 40s and single. I look at the wife of most of my friend and thinking i can't make myself to make love to this type of women!

and like what pple said - HTF? then i look in the mirror.. oh well

 

I beat you are a lonely fat old man.

Then what type of woman you want to make love to? You are 40 freaking old man.

Even if you look like Tom Cruise you are old.

 

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the reverse is true if the unmarried women are bosses and its esp bad when they are mid 30s to 40s... thats why i said dont work for single female bosses

 

That is true. They have no life.

 

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it's like an old car, if you keep starting it and warming it up, it will still run.

 

if you stop doing that for a while, it may never start again for whatever reason.

 

heh

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