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Perspective of relationship - Who is wrong here?

Guyver

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Who is wrong?  

79 members have voted

  1. 1. Who is wrong?

    • BF - Lousy, cannot control GF.
      16
    • GF - Why anyhow accept dates?
      57
    • TOM - He's bad, he should not ask GF out.
      6

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Guyver

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  On 5/27/2009 at 5:32 AM, Dj_spike said:

I think TS is thinking of going into Tom's position but is considering the consequences, actions and ppl's view if he were to face a similar scenario. U muz have had a target by now.... haha

 

[laugh] [laugh] ... I have met my female friend's bf one various occasion.

 

Unless the gal is a new gal which I just got to know .... then bo bian liao .... guess this is how fights in club got started.

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Four4s

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I'd say Nobody is at fault but don't have this option. But most likely BF choose the wrong GF or vise versa. BF not happy, should just dump the GF.

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Jamesc

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I wonder what kind of results we will get if we reverse the gender.

 

Guy like to go chiong with another gal.

 

GF goes to the club and find him with the other gal.

 

Who would you blame now?

 

BF, GF or the other gal?

 

The other gal say: Your own BF you also can't control .... so don't blame it on me. If you are good, then keep your BF at home lah. I jeo him out .... he can don't meet me .... but he CHOSE to meet me, so what you want me to do?

 

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Piyopico

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  On 5/27/2009 at 5:39 AM, Jamesc said:

I wonder what kind of results we will get if we reverse the gender.

 

Guy like to go chiong with another gal.

 

GF goes to the club and find him with the other gal.

 

Who would you blame now?

 

BF, GF or the other gal?

 

The other gal say: Your own BF you also can't control .... so don't blame it on me. If you are good, then keep your BF at home lah. I jeo him out .... he can don't meet me .... but he CHOSE to meet me, so what you want me to do?

 

 

This one easier right.

 

Just blame the BF for being a flirt. Got dinner at home still want dessert outside. I am a guy but I still say it as it is.

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  On 5/27/2009 at 5:39 AM, Jamesc said:

I wonder what kind of results we will get if we reverse the gender.

 

Guy like to go chiong with another gal.

 

GF goes to the club and find him with the other gal.

 

Who would you blame now?

 

BF, GF or the other gal?

 

The other gal say: Your own BF you also can't control .... so don't blame it on me. If you are good, then keep your BF at home lah. I jeo him out .... he can don't meet me .... but he CHOSE to meet me, so what you want me to do?

 

sad to say, i am the [pirate]

[laugh][laugh][laugh]

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Guyver

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  On 5/27/2009 at 5:35 AM, Piyopico said:

Well this is as good a topic as you can get.

 

Sure you are not TOM?

 

[lipsrsealed]

 

Well ... this is an open forum .... so what I say is not important .... people read and draw their own conclusion.

 

So I believe TOM is a representation of some of us here .... in one way or another .... at one time or another ....

 

Yes .... TOM's reply is very kuai lan .... and seriously speaking .... I think it would really take somebody that really got guts to say that in the BF's face ..... and risk getting his own face readjusted (as quoted) .... [laugh] [laugh]

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  On 5/26/2009 at 4:02 PM, Zyrofillica said:

tom should be shot for his name is TOM.

 

Ok .... please go ahead .... get a gun .... [laugh] [laugh]

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  On 5/27/2009 at 6:02 AM, Guyver said:

Ok .... please go ahead .... get a gun .... [laugh] [laugh]

 

Gun not enuff... must be shotgun then song.... [lipsrsealed]

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Simplyme

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they are dating not married gf shld have the rite and reedom to go out with ppl she wants... tom is idiot to say out that kind of things.... bf shld communicate more with gf and shld understand when to give her space and when to tok to her and let her understand the pro and cons of what she is doing.... but she at least let bf noe who she is gg out with and location.

 

感情就像放风筝，线拉的太紧会断，太松风筝就会飞走。

要懂得何时放松，何时拉紧

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Jamesc

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  On 5/27/2009 at 5:42 AM, Piyopico said:

This one easier right.

 

Just blame the BF for being a flirt. Got dinner at home still want dessert outside. I am a guy but I still say it as it is.

Maybe need to buy a cook book and practice together how make many nice dishes.

 

I like cooking too! [thumbsup]

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Seaweed

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All 3 not wrong nor they are right...It is a combination of factors resulting in this senario...The senario can be taken as having positive or negative impacts... [rolleyes]

 

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Ahgongwolve

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  On 5/26/2009 at 11:47 AM, Guyver said:

Dear all,

 

Just curious what are the perspective we have here for the below scenario.

 

Parties in volved :

 

1. BF

2. GF

3. TOM (another guy)

 

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BF and GF are in a relationship with one another.

 

For about 3 months .... BF know that GF is meeting TOM for drinks .... dinner ..... go clubbing together etc. But BF was not happy with this but kept quiet.

 

Now .... one fine day ... or maybe not so fine day.

 

BF was at a club and saw GF having a fun time with TOM in the club drinking, chatting and laughing away, WITHOUT his knowledge.

 

So BF went up to them ..... both looked abit shocked. But BF was angry .... so BF turned to TOM and asked ....

 

BF - Why you always jeo my GF out?

 

TOM - What's your problem? Your own GF you also can't control .... so don't blame it on me. If you are good, then keep your GF at home lah. I jeo her out .... she can don't meet me .... but she CHOSE to meet me, so what you want me to do?

 

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Now .... could all of you make a vote and let us know who do you think is in the wrong?

 

Do post your personal views as well.

 

 

Why you always so EMO like a girl!?

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RadX

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If this were WKS, he would say

 

'The girl can be right, and the girl can be wrong too'

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Guyver

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  On 5/27/2009 at 7:54 AM, Simplyme said:

they are dating not married gf shld have the rite and reedom to go out with ppl she wants... tom is idiot to say out that kind of things.... bf shld communicate more with gf and shld understand when to give her space and when to tok to her and let her understand the pro and cons of what she is doing.... but she at least let bf noe who she is gg out with and location.

 

感情就像放风筝，线拉的太紧会断，太松风筝就会飞走。

要懂得何时放松，何时拉紧

 

Your phrase ..

 

感情就像放风筝，线拉的太紧会断，太松风筝就会飞走。

要懂得何时放松，何时拉紧

 

Very good ..... [thumbsup] [thumbsup]

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