What do you do when your partner is acting all crazy

[Route88]

wow, you guys partners are fierce..

 

i remembered i used to have a gf like that, but i broke off with her as i can't stand a violent relationship..

 

what happen to the female species nowadays.. getting so violent, don't they hear before:

make love, not war..

 

 

 

 

Violent good leh.......in bed

Edited May 8, 2009 by Route88

[Route88]

it is true that women are mostly emotional and temperamental, while men are sober and cool. thats why some men suffer in silence and end up having extra-marital affairs, because they dont feel the tenderness anymore. actually, it is only natural that men take up the leader role and women the supporter and submissive role, but this seems to be reversing. recently i read a science research article , it says that if civilisation is to continue for another 5000 years, male will become extinct.

 

 

 

 

Must feedback to AWARE

 

 

 

[Rickster]

When my wife is all crazy, it's normal.

 

When she is normal.... something is not right.

 

Hope things r going ok with you. been hearing alot abt ur struggles.

 

Perhaps she might want to get ur attention becos of insecurity?

[Rickster]

Right now there's only one thing that will make my wife happy, evict my mother from my home.

 

And that.... is the hardest thing of all to do. So everyday I come back from home have to live with my wife's madness.

 

No s--t...thats the last situation a man would want to face - choose mother or wife

[Milo]

that's unfilial...

[Carndablues]

I feel sorry for you, and all the other guys out there who have a shitty marriage.

 

I love my wife, I love my life and she's a huge part of my life, for better or worse.

 

She's not perfect, we get into arguments, but I wait for her to cool down before we talk it out.

 

And it's imperative that you talk it out, do not let an argument settle unresolved.

 

Talk through the problems and you will soon see that not all issues are to be taken at face value.

 

Some issues are hard to resolve, like, how do you kick your own mother out of your house, the answer is that "you can't". so you as the man, will have to make choices to make life easier for both parties. If it means keeping one as far away from the other, then so be it. It could be different meal times, two TVs, whatever, you, as the man must make it work.

 

Do not be a coward and hide behind your mummy's skirt, you made the choice to marry your wife, so you must also take responsibility for her happiness if you made her move into your house.

 

A happy wife has a happy husband, that's the truth!

[Mustank]

whoa man!!!! some of you guys are sure facing a lot of shiiit man!!!!

 

i think my problems are nothing compared to you guys

[Esprit]

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Edited May 8, 2009 by Esprit

[Blue-winter]

u must learn anger management

 

 

is there really such course?? Where to go? cos want to leran to control my hot temper..

 

I always hit my wife whenever she act crazy....

 

I know it is not right...but she very irritated in action...make me double hot...

 

until she OMAka !

[Hub_n_mona]

bro,

this one need to control la..abit extreme to hit until obaka?

count to 10 each time?

[Limhm]

Hate man who use violent....dun call urself a man....Most wm r not as strong as man...u tink it's ok to bully someone of a weaker sex?

 

If u hav kids n they see wat u did...then when u grow old n they hit u....u tink is right?

 

But at least now u knew it's wrong n wish to correct it...pl do something to stop violent. She's not other mary anne or sally....she's yr WIFE...

[Blue-winter]

no choice leh....she sometime act like mad woman...

 

I cannot tahar her sometime..

 

I know she try to catch my attention....but sometime really dangerous.

 

Example I am driving she can hold the steering wheel and play with me snatching game...I was so worry about both our life...

 

You know it is a bit dangerous on the road...

 

Already warm her but she cannot listen...no choice law...

 

soft cannot....have to use hard one...

[Limhm]

Apologies for me blaming u 1st...tink there's a cause n effect....Maybe it's gd tat both of u wife n hb nid to go for counselling....

[Blue-winter]

anyway...that why I think this is not the right way to treat her...that y seeking for solution,

happen to see someone saying about anger managment course, I though it will help...

Luckily she love me like mad...that why she never blame me....

Everytime she always give excuses to forgive me...dun understand her.......

[Blue-winter]

Apologies for me blaming u 1st...tink there's a cause n effect....Maybe it's gd tat both of u wife n hb nid to go for counselling....

 

 

Thank for concern, I think I will try to seek solution with her and try to improve with her...

[Wreckwrx]

Just wondering... how long have you been married? Care to share?

 

I feel sorry for you, and all the other guys out there who have a shitty marriage.

 

I love my wife, I love my life and she's a huge part of my life, for better or worse.

 

She's not perfect, we get into arguments, but I wait for her to cool down before we talk it out.

 

And it's imperative that you talk it out, do not let an argument settle unresolved.

 

Talk through the problems and you will soon see that not all issues are to be taken at face value.

 

Some issues are hard to resolve, like, how do you kick your own mother out of your house, the answer is that "you can't". so you as the man, will have to make choices to make life easier for both parties. If it means keeping one as far away from the other, then so be it. It could be different meal times, two TVs, whatever, you, as the man must make it work.

 

Do not be a coward and hide behind your mummy's skirt, you made the choice to marry your wife, so you must also take responsibility for her happiness if you made her move into your house.

 

A happy wife has a happy husband, that's the truth!

 

[Carndablues]

Just wondering... how long have you been married? Care to share?

 

8 years, coming to 9

[Wreckwrx]

8 years, coming to 9

 

Keep it up!!