What do you do when your partner is acting all crazy

[Boi2uncle]

yes. for my birthday, she told me that my birthday gift, is to buy her something from goldheart. serious. i almost faint.

 

lol.. like dat also can?!

[Milo]

only for ladies? what if a guy goes crazy???

 

can a woman vote? [bounce1]

 

but anyway, i chose an option which is not in here. ie. i move house and change contacts! can u guys believe when a guy goes crazy, it can be worse than a girl?

[800ml]

TS survey somehow will not able to get the actual accuracy, as clearer scenario is not given.

And that usually why sometimes i was caught back by some surveys result done by research

companies.

 

Different scenarios do applies to for the same 1 action. Anf the result of the whole survey is gonna

tell how one's will react when this one thing happens. But when there are actually more than one

thing will happen to take that reaction. (hope u guys understand what i mean)

 

Example:

Appease her. Say sorry even though you know it's not your fault - for sure

 

S1 - Wife is not in her usual self. so hubby knows she's stress up. so.....

A's wife usually is soft spoken. real nice temper lady. But one day she's completely stress out

and happen to vent it out on hubby unintentionally.

 

S2 - hubby used to wife's character, and most of the time being a more forgiving side, he is used to it. so......

B's wife all along has a strong-willed character. Whatever she says is 9 out of 10 is the final decisions.

whenever hubby thinks he has better idea, his wife will go mad at his proposal after several bouts' with him.

 

Both scenarios does applies to the same vote.

 

Therefore, when we look at the final no. of votes, hope everyone has a better view of it.

 

 

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[Milo]

yes. for my birthday, she told me that my birthday gift, is to buy her something from goldheart. serious. i almost faint.

 

 

maybe she will surprise u?

[Vextan]

maybe she will surprise u?

yeah, maybe she surprise me with the credit card receipt from goldheart.

[Milo]

poor thing.... good luck man.

 

[Wbucket]

To pay for wife shopping is a big taboo. It will be a bottomless pit.

Haha...I wonder if GF and wife would be a big diff. I pay for hers, she got me back something more ex.

 

Btw, 2 books I read somehow tells me why they do what they do and how to react when they do those stuff.

1. Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus

2. The Five Love Languages

[Kurty]

for me, i just shut her off..

 

especially driving on the ride... it will revoke me more..

 

i feel safety is overruled by anger.. at least, in my case... very dangerous..

[Nutsack]

If she is steady enuf, I will mean what I say. She takes ages to even decide a hair clip, a divorce decision will probabably take her into next life cycle. I dun look down on her for many things, only this aspect I m certain she is not ready for the challenge. She is not the independant type anyway, dur wedding prep, everything her parent and didnt think of our pockets. It is wedding prep that I know her in another big step. Some wives help husband to prosper, my wife? I dun think so, I better be more diligent in my own hands and make some important decision in my life. Pillar of support, still far from it imo.

 

She has punched me before but that will be the last time cos I warn her the next time I raise my hand, things will get real ugly, from then she dar not touch me again. Things somehow got improved and I get my own free time gradually. I hope I am on the bright side too.

 

 

Mine hit me in my balls a few times. She stopped after I experienced pain for weeks. Since then nothing oredi. But she's still quite physical. How siah.

 

[Nutsack]

yes. for my birthday, she told me that my birthday gift, is to buy her something from goldheart. serious. i almost faint.

 

You got it easy. My wife wants me to buy her a Lambo or stay out of her way so she can buy herself one. And she said if she bought it, I ain't drivin' it. But jokingly of course. My wife is very independent, aggressive, intelligent but very very bossy. She shouts and scolds a lot, over the littlest things.

 

Most of the time she makes me feel stupid even though I'm her equal in most aspects.

[Leeshunda100]

Mine hit me in my balls a few times. She stopped after I experienced pain for weeks. Since then nothing oredi. But she's still quite physical. How siah.

 

cant blame her, ur balls so obivous. anyone will step on it without knowing.

[Milo]

singapore guys are getting vulnerable...... this is torturing.... remind me of the story written by one of out mcf member.....

[Kurty]

wow, you guys partners are fierce..

 

i remembered i used to have a gf like that, but i broke off with her as i can't stand a violent relationship..

 

what happen to the female species nowadays.. getting so violent, don't they hear before:

make love, not war..

[Milo]

u must learn anger management

[Route88]

I voted oredi !

 

Raise your voice right back in attempt to shut her up.

[Kurty]

should have another option - kick her out of the car

[Vextan]

it is true that women are mostly emotional and temperamental, while men are sober and cool. thats why some men suffer in silence and end up having extra-marital affairs, because they dont feel the tenderness anymore. actually, it is only natural that men take up the leader role and women the supporter and submissive role, but this seems to be reversing. recently i read a science research article , it says that if civilisation is to continue for another 5000 years, male will become extinct.

[Vextan]

should have another option - kick her out of the car

or sell her away as pros.