What do you do when your partner is acting all crazy

[Unfazed]

wah.. bro.. u are fierce

Unfortunately I am someone who dun give a dam about such craziness, I m the sorta who can walk out of a marriage and survive on my own, but with kids I m concerned abt their growing up phase as they will feel the impact, they are pretty innocent so as adults we gotto put them in top proiority to min the impact on them. If really no choice, then separation will only be the solution but try to min impact on kids. Easy to say, hard to be done thou.

[Hub_n_mona]

well, you know they say men and women are from different planets altogether

[Skylander]

sorry bro, can i ask something .... firstly i would say u really steady ..... can say that.

secondly, did you say that and be prepared to divorce? i feel that nowsadays modern women are more independent and think divorce is ok and no big deal when 2 people cannot get along.

i think not worth something like that happen just because of her having pms. Have to understand how they feel also and they are more emotional than men.

[Unfazed]

Wa sey... power...

I luv riding and there was once my spouse made a statement about me riding, she was so full of herself when I slap here with one statement. I dun marry you to rule my life, we each got our life, we bring joy to each other not thru control. Honestly I dunno what she will turn to in old age, unadventurous nature aint gonna take her anywhere. Now kid still small but I dun think things gonna look gd when my kid grows up with her unadventurous nature, basically her family has a nature of being "nuah" in hokkien.

[Laukuikor]

Just a little survey.

If she is acting crazy, sent her to IMH and she will really be crazy.

That will solve the problem.

[Anniewan99]

Behind every successful man there is a good wife, likewise behind every crazy woman there is a lousy husband. I use the word crazy because men tends to refer woman as crazy.

 

TS has all options but left out one for reflecting on himself when things are caused by him.... typical man. Of cos then he will think he is not the cause, so no such option. lol

 

Seriously if you think your wife behaves crazy, then you have to ask youself what have you done or not done? Serioiusly. Amazingly the husband in her life can miraclely heal, destroy, motivate in any perspective.

 

Men, you should be man enough to face it, admit it, solve it.... don't run away.

 

[Unfazed]

sorry bro, can i ask something .... firstly i would say u really steady ..... can say that.

secondly, did you say that and be prepared to divorce? i feel that nowsadays modern women are more independent and think divorce is ok and no big deal when 2 people cannot get along.

i think not worth something like that happen just because of her having pms. Have to understand how they feel also and they are more emotional than men.

If she is steady enuf, I will mean what I say. She takes ages to even decide a hair clip, a divorce decision will probabably take her into next life cycle. I dun look down on her for many things, only this aspect I m certain she is not ready for the challenge. She is not the independant type anyway, dur wedding prep, everything her parent and didnt think of our pockets. It is wedding prep that I know her in another big step. Some wives help husband to prosper, my wife? I dun think so, I better be more diligent in my own hands and make some important decision in my life. Pillar of support, still far from it imo.

 

She has punched me before but that will be the last time cos I warn her the next time I raise my hand, things will get real ugly, from then she dar not touch me again. Things somehow got improved and I get my own free time gradually. I hope I am on the bright side too.

[Krieger]

Hi uncle Lee,

 

i am surpise u mentioned that being shouted by a woman is a no no. Hmm. maybe my generation is different from yours(I am 30 this year). I feel that its ok if the other person (a woman) does not feel happy or for some medical reasons to shout at me. We must at times understd that everyone have moods. :) Cheers, just my 2 cents of opinion

[Help1]

actually all women's tantrum can be solved easily, just bring her go shopping and buy whatever she wants. guaranteed.

 

 

you pay for your wife shoppings?

[Wreckwrx]

If she is steady enuf, I will mean what I say. She takes ages to even decide a hair clip, a divorce decision will probabably take her into next life cycle. I dun look down on her for many things, only this aspect I m certain she is not ready for the challenge. She is not the independant type anyway, dur wedding prep, everything her parent and didnt think of our pockets. It is wedding prep that I know her in another big step. Some wives help husband to prosper, my wife? I dun think so, I better be more diligent in my own hands and make some important decision in my life. Pillar of support, still far from it imo.

 

She has punched me before but that will be the last time cos I warn her the next time I raise my hand, things will get real ugly, from then she dar not touch me again. Things somehow got improved and I get my own free time gradually. I hope I am on the bright side too.

 

I am not a trained counsellor and neither do I want to plant any ideas in your head but I am just curious why is it that you marry your wife? I am sure there must be something about her that attracted you to want to commit yourself.....

Edited May 8, 2009 by Wreckwrx

[Jman888]

家家有本难念的经！

[Unfazed]

I am not a trained counsellor and neither do I want to plant any ideas in your head but I am just curious why is it that you marry your wife? I am sure there must be something about her that attracted you to want to commit yourself.....

It is her good points that attracts but in the process of wedding prep, realised she has more bad than good. And coupled with her screw-up family, that makes things worse. But do not worry, things are improving. And she is getting fustrated over her own family too. I got one wife, they lose one daughter, so who's the winner?

[Unfazed]

you pay for your wife shoppings?

To pay for wife shopping is a big taboo. It will be a bottomless pit.

[Vextan]

To pay for wife shopping is a big taboo. It will be a bottomless pit.

yes. for my birthday, she told me that my birthday gift, is to buy her something from goldheart. serious. i almost faint.

[Shull]

that means, there's no solution..always hardest to be caught in-between

 

perhaps create some scenario for them to join hands

 

i read from somewhere..i think is the experience of one of the MCFers..when his wife and mother quarrel..he go out with his dad to la kopi downstairs and wait out the storm.. [laugh]

 

[800ml]

When my wife is all crazy, it's normal.

 

When she is normal.... something is not right.

 

 

haha.....interesting...

[Wreckwrx]

Just hang in there bro....

[Strife]

do what a man should do. Most options are a matter of style but the apology route is humiliation, totally.

 

8 of 41 votes as of now. Significant but not alarming. MANkind still has hopes.