Whattafarck 1st Gear April 19, 2009 Share April 19, 2009 Hi All Car Forumers & Forummettes, i have been living in Sembawang for almost 12 yrs now... all is well until a recent few years back.. next door neighbour... has been on the inconsiderate end. all other neighbours ...same level..up & down neighbours have been on good & friendly terms with us. but next door neighbour has been turning on their tv & hi-fi on loud & noisy...purposely talked very loudly up till 2-3 am on many nights.. neighbours who passed by their door have been called nasty names for no reason...& my wife & myself have been subjected to verbal abuses on many occasions... we have kept quiet amidst all this & yet i have been challenged & threatened to a fight with them. Other neighbours have complained abt their antics but they'll only tone down for a few days & start again afterwards. It's a real nigtmare. what can we do? ↡ Advertisement Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yr1985 1st Gear April 19, 2009 Share April 19, 2009 What's the address? We'll fix up party just for them. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Whattafarck 1st Gear April 19, 2009 Author Share April 19, 2009 hey... thanks for trying to cheer me up here... yea...i know....i'm very tempted to make a few calls to my "past friends" but DaddyHood is foremost on my mind. i'm very worried actually for my kid & my wife....as i am away in KL most of the time. now it's foul-languaged verbal abuses....who knows what next??!! Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kusje Supersonic April 19, 2009 Share April 19, 2009 What did you all do to them? Unless they are crazy, no one will verbally abuse you if there is no feud between the parties. Also, why do you say that they "purposely talked very loudly up till 2-3 am on many nights.."? Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ichibawa 5th Gear April 19, 2009 Share April 19, 2009 Just ask the police to do their job if they bother at wee hours. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Elfenstar 3rd Gear April 19, 2009 Share April 19, 2009 Just ask the police to do their job if they bother at wee hours. I think the TS or other neighbours have done that already. What he's looking for is a more long-term method. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Elfenstar 3rd Gear April 19, 2009 Share April 19, 2009 hey... thanks for trying to cheer me up here... yea...i know....i'm very tempted to make a few calls to my "past friends" but DaddyHood is foremost on my mind. i'm very worried actually for my kid & my wife....as i am away in KL most of the time. now it's foul-languaged verbal abuses....who knows what next??!! You may want to try the sub-courts primary dispute resolution center. IMHO they may seem to be toothless at the begining, but will become a tiger if the dispute still persists. Have a read of this article. Sounds like your case initally, but it got pretty blown-up. Everitt Road Neighbourhood Dispute Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Whattafarck 1st Gear April 19, 2009 Author Share April 19, 2009 With all honesty.... we still really do not know why they've changed.. we used to get along normally... my best bet is when we ad my SuperBoy..about 3 yrs ago... they are still childless now... the wife is the loud-mouthed bitchy type...& its made worse by the arrival of their yet-to-be-enlisted-forNS nephew... who's has the typical youth angst.. once, i caught him spewing a foul language when i passed by their door...i asked him what he said....he denied everything... & went to complain to his uncle... who confronted me..accusing me of bullying his young-dun-know-anything nephew... & threatened me to beat me up & claiming to be Sembawang Old Boy Gangster. all this in the prescence of my then 2 yr old son. sigh.....what can i do.... Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Whattafarck 1st Gear April 19, 2009 Author Share April 19, 2009 the everitt case??!! see....even when go up to the courts.... ...still cannot settle! in fact i recalled the courts telling them to resolve among themselves... quite a few neighbours in everitt have moved out... so until we get our place elsewhere... i guess just have to live with this lor... as i've said....not that i can't settle this "my way".... we'll just make ourselves as low as them. i dun want my Superboy to grow up in this kinda environment....very negative. what else can we do.... Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ahgongwolve Clutched April 19, 2009 Share April 19, 2009 Hi All Car Forumers & Forummettes, i have been living in Sembawang for almost 12 yrs now... all is well until a recent few years back.. next door neighbour... has been on the inconsiderate end. all other neighbours ...same level..up & down neighbours have been on good & friendly terms with us. but next door neighbour has been turning on their tv & hi-fi on loud & noisy...purposely talked very loudly up till 2-3 am on many nights.. neighbours who passed by their door have been called nasty names for no reason...& my wife & myself have been subjected to verbal abuses on many occasions... we have kept quiet amidst all this & yet i have been challenged & threatened to a fight with them. Other neighbours have complained abt their antics but they'll only tone down for a few days & start again afterwards. It's a real nigtmare. what can we do? GO to their house and tell the to SHut the )(*& up .. or you will whack their face in. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Twofouronenite 1st Gear April 19, 2009 Share April 19, 2009 With all honesty.... we still really do not know why they've changed.. we used to get along normally... my best bet is when we ad my SuperBoy..about 3 yrs ago... they are still childless now... the wife is the loud-mouthed bitchy type...& its made worse by the arrival of their yet-to-be-enlisted-forNS nephew... who's has the typical youth angst.. once, i caught him spewing a foul language when i passed by their door...i asked him what he said....he denied everything... & went to complain to his uncle... who confronted me..accusing me of bullying his young-dun-know-anything nephew... & threatened me to beat me up & claiming to be Sembawang Old Boy Gangster. all this in the prescence of my then 2 yr old son. sigh.....what can i do.... Guess only u will noe what spark the "feud", noeing it might not resolve ur problem then maybe trying cooking something up during a festival and give it to them. This way can ease the tension, since u mention going to KL, get something say a special snack for them. Maybe it might sound crazy, but the idea is to be good to them even when they are "evil". That might help to change whatever bad impression they might have on u? Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pcslim Neutral Newbie April 19, 2009 Share April 19, 2009 I think the TS or other neighbours have done that already. What he's looking for is a more long-term method. Sadly there may not be any long term methods if the other party continues to be unreasonable. TS may want to install a CCTV (try to hide it of coz) just in case they try to be funny. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Whattafarck 1st Gear April 19, 2009 Author Share April 19, 2009 we tried... we really tried to be nice...extra nice to them.... but they always thought we were the ones who complained about them.. my wife has lost track of the number of plates & bowls they never returned... one was even used to hold water for their flower pot they put on the corridor! but i've always told my wife to be patient & cool about their attitude.. really sad.... it seems they take out their anger & frustrations on us somehow... just because we chose to keep quiet & silent about this. i'll only be back home this Wednesday...till then i'm really worried for my kid & wife. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Emils 2nd Gear April 19, 2009 Share April 19, 2009 Well, if you have tried all possible methods and they do not work, the last resort is probably to move out... Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Elfenstar 3rd Gear April 19, 2009 Share April 19, 2009 the everitt case??!! see....even when go up to the courts.... ...still cannot settle! in fact i recalled the courts telling them to resolve among themselves... quite a few neighbours in everitt have moved out... so until we get our place elsewhere... i guess just have to live with this lor... as i've said....not that i can't settle this "my way".... we'll just make ourselves as low as them. i dun want my Superboy to grow up in this kinda environment....very negative. what else can we do.... Well some of the mediation centers have had some luck in resolving these disputes. You might as well give them a try since you don't have anything to lose. However, I do have to ask if you guys have spoken about this matter in a calm and composed matter yet? Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hondacub777 6th Gear April 19, 2009 Share April 19, 2009 Well, if you have tried all possible methods and they do not work, the last resort is probably to move out... I think thats their main purpose,force TS family to move out then ask their own relatives to take over . Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gendut 2nd Gear April 19, 2009 Share April 19, 2009 Is it a Malay family? Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Harrods Neutral Newbie April 19, 2009 Share April 19, 2009 i realli suggest the TS to shift house..... won't want my son to grow up in this kinda enviro. for the time being.... just endure a bit ↡ Advertisement Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
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