Gabriel 1st Gear February 14, 2009 Share February 14, 2009 i have a fren who had an abortion lately... she is unable to keep the baby due to personal reasons..poor health being the main one.. and she is feeling really guilty that she had to go for abortion.. so she would like to find a temple that can help the unborn child ... maybe help in a way for him to reincarnate..or find a better family in his next life anyone has any idea which temple offers this service... and pls be respectful in ur replies. no flaming or disrespect pls in any form, a life has been lost. and if she had a choice , things would not be this way.. and appreciate if anyone could help..and pls do not ask if this baby is mine.. coz i am merely asking on behalf of a fren..cheers ↡ Advertisement Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tohdj Neutral Newbie February 14, 2009 Share February 14, 2009 check this out if u cannot find it...then maybe u can consult Tua Ya Peh...afterall he is also helping the people who have passed on. There's one at 46 Toh Guan East Road...its in an industrial estate's compound. Go on a Thursday nite. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mahjong74 Supercharged February 14, 2009 Share February 14, 2009 (edited) Fo Jiao Ju Si Lin Temple Tel: 6737 2630 17 Kim Yam Rd Bukit Merah Singapore 239329 This is a Buddhist temple that provide such service. Just pay a token of $10 will do. Hope it help and Buddha bless your friend. Edited February 14, 2009 by Mahjong74 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cavver 4th Gear February 14, 2009 Share February 14, 2009 buddhist or taoist ?? Heard that you have to offer a tablet or something to the aborted baby, is like treating them as part of the family. You should consult religion expert for correct way to settle this. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Simplyme Neutral Newbie February 14, 2009 Share February 14, 2009 (edited) errmm... according to my mum... can go to those Buddhist temple who does prayers for those who have passed on can ask the shi fu there... most temples do have... she strongly advise not to go those taoist weird weird temple cos some are really just out to cheat $$ no point gg that kind... Try to look for temples that have the pai wei kind cos 1st and 15th of the month mostly got ritual.... and i personally suggest you get your friend to go counselling... god bless your fren Edited February 14, 2009 by Simplyme Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Porker Turbocharged February 14, 2009 Share February 14, 2009 i have a fren who had an abortion lately... she is unable to keep the baby due to personal reasons..poor health being the main one.. and she is feeling really guilty that she had to go for abortion.. so she would like to find a temple that can help the unborn child ... maybe help in a way for him to reincarnate..or find a better family in his next life anyone has any idea which temple offers this service... and pls be respectful in ur replies. no flaming or disrespect pls in any form, a life has been lost. and if she had a choice , things would not be this way.. and appreciate if anyone could help..and pls do not ask if this baby is mine.. coz i am merely asking on behalf of a fren..cheers I'm not sure of any temples that offer such services but just wanna let you know that such things don't help at all. It may appease a little but the baby is gonna get stuck in transition due to her decision to abort. In short its a lose lose situation. Really quite difficult to change it around. My advice is to get her to be mentally prepared for future consequences be it direct or indirect. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Solar Turbocharged February 14, 2009 Share February 14, 2009 i thought the temple priest/monk will help guide the child to 'queue up' for reborn instead of being stuck in transition? that's the purpose of getting such help right? yes, i tend to agree, that some temple don't demand hundreds and still do a good job with just a token of any amount.. those that do, are probably those type of 'mercedes priests/monks' to avoid Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Silver_blade Turbocharged February 14, 2009 Share February 14, 2009 I'm not sure of any temples that offer such services but just wanna let you know that such things don't help at all. It may appease a little but the baby is gonna get stuck in transition due to her decision to abort. In short its a lose lose situation. Really quite difficult to change it around. My advice is to get her to be mentally prepared for future consequences be it direct or indirect. That was what I heard years ago. But I'm not sure if it's common believes among the Buddhist and Taoist. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Porker Turbocharged February 14, 2009 Share February 14, 2009 It depends on how persuasive the dude is when performing the "ritual". Hope he can do it lor. But still... there's consequences for aborting whatever reasons there may be. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Solar Turbocharged February 14, 2009 Share February 14, 2009 doing the religious rite is one thing, your friend also need to 'let go'.. or this guilt will follow her forever, its not healthy to her (mentally) and family.. i know, cos my friend kenna before. good luck. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Porker Turbocharged February 14, 2009 Share February 14, 2009 Yup friend must let go. Same goes to the baby. Then things will be better. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gabriel 1st Gear February 14, 2009 Author Share February 14, 2009 thnks all for your replies, you have been such a great help. i am thankful that respect was shown in this thread and i appreciate it. i will get her to view this thread and anymore questions or doubts will be raised after this. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nom107 1st Gear February 15, 2009 Share February 15, 2009 simple : 1 for 1 may b w interest. 1. take $1 return $1 sometime with insterest. 2. return something with same value ( of $1, wat thing u consider is value $1 ) how is much life ??? U NEED TO SAVE MANY LIFE MAY B U CAN GET BACK 1 LIFE. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hub_n_mona 1st Gear February 15, 2009 Share February 15, 2009 simple : 1 for 1 may b w interest. 1. take $1 return $1 sometime with insterest. 2. return something with same value ( of $1, wat thing u consider is value $1 ) how is much life ??? U NEED TO SAVE MANY LIFE MAY B U CAN GET BACK 1 LIFE. What's the point of your post, I dun really get it. Are you advising against abortion or wat? If yes, maybe inappropriate place to post since it's after abortion already. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Renegade777 5th Gear February 15, 2009 Share February 15, 2009 What's the point of your post, I dun really get it. Are you advising against abortion or wat? If yes, maybe inappropriate place to post since it's after abortion already. Yeah ! Inconsiderate. Cannot imagine people can talk without putting on their thinking caps . Hope someone can delete his posting. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Limlien Clutched February 15, 2009 Share February 15, 2009 i have a fren who had an abortion lately... she is unable to keep the baby due to personal reasons..poor health being the main one.. and she is feeling really guilty that she had to go for abortion.. so she would like to find a temple that can help the unborn child ... maybe help in a way for him to reincarnate..or find a better family in his next life anyone has any idea which temple offers this service... and pls be respectful in ur replies. no flaming or disrespect pls in any form, a life has been lost. and if she had a choice , things would not be this way.. and appreciate if anyone could help..and pls do not ask if this baby is mine.. coz i am merely asking on behalf of a fren..cheers If she can afford, find a taoist priest and do kong teck for the child. Or u can seek bright hill temples on what to do. they do so during the chinese 3 or 7 month,. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
So_nice 6th Gear February 15, 2009 Share February 15, 2009 will thai temple do for ur friend? Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
So_nice 6th Gear February 15, 2009 Share February 15, 2009 Wat Ananda Metyarama Buddhist Temple 50B Jalan Bukit Merah (S)169545 ↡ Advertisement Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
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