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When guys first see you, they don't care about your character

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Roborovskii

Roborovskii

4th Gear
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When guys first see you, they don't care about your character

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http://justwoman.asiaone.com/Just%2BWoman/...0908-86528.html

 

IT seems the obsession with beauty is alive and well among Singaporeans.

 

Ms Charmaine Choo, 21, for example, feels that her external appearance is crucial to her life.

 

As a personal assistant, she feels that first impressions count.

 

'If you are well-dressed, people will think you have self-discipline. And if you dress poorly, people will think you're very lazy.

 

'If someone can't be bothered about their own appearance, how can they be trusted with other things?'

 

Looks matter, especially when it comes to relationships.

 

Ms Choo said: 'When guys first see you, they don't care about your character. Only your looks.'

 

So what does beauty mean to her?

 

'Silky hair and big eyes with long eyelashes,' she replied.

 

For Ms Choo, Japanese actor Takashi Kaneshiro is the most beautiful person in the world because 'his eyes are very expressive' and 'he looks humble'.

 

Most of Ms Choo's beauty inspirations come from the movies, where she notices what the stars wear and how they are made up. Inspiration also comes from people-watching at Orchard Road, the Shenton Way area, and even at her neighbourhood coffee shop.

 

For Ms Choo, beauty is the source of her confidence, and although she doesn't like men staring at her constantly, she wants them to look at her 'a little'.

 

Ms Choo who spends $200 a month on three to four dresses, said: 'It's not just for the guys, lah. It's also for me. When I look good, I feel good.'

 

When asked if she would consider other definitions of beauty, she replied: 'No. It's just my personality. I just like nice things.'

 

She said: 'Honestly, I feel that people who enter this (Aware) competition are deceiving themselves a bit. Maybe at this point in time, their presentation might not be important to them.

 

'But later on, surely they will find a reason to be beautiful. Don't tell me they don't want to look good on their wedding day?'

 

 

 

 

Hmm.... no other definitions of beauty...

Beauty as a source of confidence...

Placing a high priority on looks in relationships...

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Mzrmazda3

Mzrmazda3

6th Gear

Though appearance counts ... [nod][nod][nod]

 

But slowly, character will kick in ... [nod][nod][nod]

 

If si beh chio but character KNS, be prepared to be dump after being used for 'Pleasure Of Senses' [lipsrsealed][lipsrsealed][lipsrsealed]

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Rickster

Rickster

5th Gear

[nod] Even if u have a chio bu gf...but if her character is really [shakehead] . The relationship/marriage will not last long.

 

So the correct term should be:

 

Looks ignites initial attracton, then character sustains. Both also important. If either one is [shakehead] badly, then its a gone case.

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Damienic

Damienic

5th Gear

Guys are visual but appearance is only wat catches hold of our attention in the earlier impression...long term wise, character still matters the most...if looks very solid but after knowing for sometime and discover the character is KNS, is still a bye bye..

 

I used to have a female fren who is fustrated and once started asking me why guys are so superficial, only attracted to women with good looks....

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Mzrmazda3

Mzrmazda3

6th Gear

Some comes together as an item because the other party was loaded [rolleyes][rolleyes][rolleyes]

 

I have personally come across a case whereby 'Lxn Jiao Character with a Fxck face Charbor (Sor Ni for my vugalar-ness [blush][blush][blush] ) but that Tar Por Siao Siao follows her like a dog [gossip][gossip][gossip]

 

The reason is can stay in landed property, drive flushy cars and eat in high class restaurant [rolleyes][rolleyes][rolleyes]

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Mzrmazda3

Mzrmazda3

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Guys are visual but appearance is only wat catches hold of our attention in the earlier impression...long term wise, character still matters the most...if looks very solid but after knowing for sometime and discover the character is KNS, is still a bye bye..

 

Yeah Bro [nod][nod][nod]

 

I used to have a female fren who is fustrated and once started asking me why guys are so superficial, only attracted to women with good looks....

 

Bro, you never tell her that Charbor also the same like Tar Por mah [laugh][laugh][laugh]

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Speddevil

Speddevil

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Yes man. God is fair. What you gain, you will lose more for what you gain eventually. Looks though important but character will soon reveal overtime. You find yourself out of the scenario [nod][nod][nod]

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