Is it a common trait amongst women that they don

[Silklee]

In your experiences, do you find that most women will tell u yes or no, want or dont want, but they usually dont tell you why EVEN if you ask...

 

Especially so when its a negative answer...

Edited August 11, 2008 by Silklee

[Rickster]

Juz had a bad experience bro?

 

Women r like that one lar, dun have to understand them or how they make decisions as they are guided by emotions & feelings, thus no explaination.

 

Juz love ur girl alot and try not to understand them too much

[Wish1719]

ask Blue2....

know why god created women??

otherwise men are too free, so they created woman

and the trouble starts....men always have to try and figure out what they (women)

actually want.....

Edited August 11, 2008 by Wish1719

[Wish1719]

Juz love ur girl alot and try not to understand them too much

 

 

Good call!

[Wish1719]

what Rickster say was correct."Women r like that one lar, dun have to understand them or how they make decisions as they are guided by emotions & feelings, thus no explaination

Juz love ur girl alot and try not to understand them too much "

Trouble will start once you understand them...

[Klinz]

Also tough lah...

Sometime they will say why you nvr ask why = no show concern.

[Gearoil]

In your experiences, do you find that most women will tell u yes or no, want or dont want, but they usually dont tell you why EVEN if you ask...

 

Especially so when its a negative answer...

 

Your quoted trait exits mainly in women who wield power...particularly those who have financial power!..or those 'controlling' types...who like to control every litte issues!

[Silklee]

A lot of times, the more u ask, the more they dont want to answer. You act as if you dont care, they will then volunteer the answer... kns.

[Wreckwrx]

If u ask, they will get pissed off saying that u r not sensitive enough to know the situation w/o them having to explain to you.

 

If u dun ask, they also get pissed off coz they think u bo chap....

 

So how like that??

 

You just got to keep reasuring them that you will stand by her side and every ready to hear her out and slowly, she will open up to you.

[Typhoonz]

Pros and cons of women...

 

Can be a pro if you see it form another point of view...

[Xefera]

should be trouble start when you try to rationalize with them

 

normally when my CO disagrees with me, i will let it pass instead of questioning her reasons. if i were to push her into a corner with my arguments, then i need to start running for shelter

[Hoppe]

if u ask me, they are all the same one.

All nationalities.

 

First, ask then dont answer. Then say, never listen or we guys talk to much.

Very difficult.

[Wish1719]

it will be lucky if your shelter works...

cos their ammo, can pirce thru great wall....

[Xefera]

or don't worry. normally in such cases, a simple nod or 'OK' will suffice

[Apollo]

wat you need is this

 

[Watwheels]

In your experiences, do you find that most women will tell u yes or no, want or dont want, but they usually dont tell you why EVEN if you ask...

 

Especially so when its a negative answer...

 

U got ask your mother?

[So_nice]

u will never be able to understand them at all. its better to treat them as it is rather then to understand. they never say WHY. they only know YES or NO.

 

bottomline? its either u accept it or u walk away.

[Qpik]

generally the male and female species grey matter are wired differently but it is not absolute that your statement will apply to a genetically certified female. i hv come across such behaviour being exhibited by the males specimen.

 

thus my solution is if 1st prodding doesn't not warrant any response from the other party, one must maintain non-verbal communication yet other senses must be alert cos the other party are sending out replies through their body-language. if you do sense presence of land mines, thread with care and prepare to take shelter. for the sake of your safety, be prepared to take shelter in enemy camp and act like a POW to gain some sympathy points.

Edited August 11, 2008 by Qpik