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Taken from another forum posting is somewhat funny but also pity this guy:Genital herpes Positive - My worst Valentine gift. Don't know how I got it.

 

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I got to know I am Genital herpes positive on 14 Feb 2008, valentine's day.

My heart was smashed into pieces and I almost cried in the DSC counsellor's room. Till now I am still puzzled when and how I got it.

 

Let me briefly tell u my limited cheonging experience.

 

20.09.2006 PRC Jiang Hong. BBBJ but quick capped penetration.

Jiang - pleasant looking SNRT PRC

 

06.10.2006 PRC Xiao Ye. Protected BJ and quick capped penetration.

 

15.11.2006. OKT's Thai gal. 2 times capped BJ.

 

06.01.2007. PRC. Protected BJ.

 

12.02.2007. PRC. Xiao Yu. Protected BJ.

 

01.03.2007. RTF. PRC Jiang Hong. (See above)

 

03.05.2007. PRC. Protected BJ.

 

12.06.2007. Singapore FL. Jessy.

 

10.10.2007 PRC. groin massage & handjob.

For her , I remember that she did not wash her hands before starting groin massage on me and she just had finished with another customer.

 

Not tried any one since then.

 

I went to DSC for Oral & Genital Herpes tests on 30 Oct 2007 since have time. Positive for Oral but negative for Genital. Thought very heng.

 

Late Jan or early Feb 2008, I had pimples on my chest, arms, waist and penis.

As I have atopic dementatis (sensitive skin problem) and out-break often, I though nothing of it. I though my new tremendous work stress triggered them.

 

On 4 Feb 2008, I had unprotected oral and virginal sex with wife first before using Durex Performa. The next morning, my penis was itchy and I discovered 4 pimples near the base of my penis. More pimples on the skin near the head. I thought I am allergic to local anaesthesia in Durex performa. How CNY was close I thought better to a check up at DSC. Causasian doc said could be Herpes or could be atopic dementatis so better to do a culture test. So it do.

 

As I know my wife would want sex on Valentine's day, I called DSC and rushed down to get result. Was told to see counsellor. Was told positive for Genital Herpes!!!!!!!!

 

My last commercial sex - protected oral sex was in June 2006 and my Oct 2007 blood test for genital Herpes was NEGATIVE. Long enough for window period to be over, isn't it? In between only had groin massage & HJ and sex with wife. What went wrong? can groin massage & handjob transmit Genital Herpes?

Can anyone enlighten me?

 

As my last sex with wife was on 4 Feb 2008 and I already had 2 pimples on my dick, is my wife likely to get genital herpes from me since she did bbbj and i did her raw before putting condom?

 

I am extremely worried as she had said that if I fooled around, she will divorce me and take the 2 kids way.

 

I rejected her sexual advance on 15 Feb 2008 morning and I am still suffering from my primary infection. I don't know for how long I can avoid her...

 

Before my primary attack started, i hand high anxiety and high stress month and I experienced body ache and flu. That could be the reason of the trigger.

I just read that men usually get 4 to 6 recurrent attacks a year and will decrease as years go by. I have to suffer till I die.

 

I am going to AFA to do HIV test next week. If thing goes wrong, I won't know how to face my wife and kids. I may commit suicide.

 

To new cheongers, quit commercial sex.

 

 

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I had to physically reject her sexual advance this morning, 17 Feb, saying that my penis was cut by shaving blade when I shaved in the afternoon. So just rubbed her to climax.

 

Should I just own up to her before she develop any symptoms or wait till she has the symptoms and diagnosed by doctor? She does complain of itch in groin area on and off.

Should I suggest she shares part of the blame?

The reason i eat out is because my wife deprived me for a long period of time.

 

I posted the following on 11 Oct 2006.

 

"Sex --> mostly off, rarely on.

Last count is 2.5 months of no-action.

Just requested for her to do HJ for me but been rejected outright, "Don't you know it is very late now? Don't you have to wake up very early in the morning?"

What the fxxk!

No FJ, no BJ, no HJ. Sexless marriage!!!

No wonder my premature ejaculation problem deteriorates over the years.

Other guys' stamina get better while mine is the reverse.

Emotionally and sexually frustrating to have such a wife."

 

Our second child is born on Jun 2006. A few months after her delivery, after many many traumas at home, absence of child care support, and absence of sex, she told me she felt like committing suicide. Then I realised she is down with post-natal depression.

 

But when she recovered from postnatal depression, she was busy with the baby and deprived me. I always ask myself during that period, "Why can't she gives me half an hour per week for sex? I don't last very long and, apart from sex, I need her love too". As such, I always reckon my wife to be a good mother but not a good wife.

 

Now is too late. Don't know how to face her and the kids. Extremely afraid of passing the disease to them, esp kids.

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I have been tearing these few days and spending more time with my kids. I become more tolerant of their annoying behaviour. Every time, I hug them, I become more emotional. I once teared in office and my male colleague saw.

 

 

19 Feb 2008, Tuesday

 

I went back to DSC for further checkup, to clarify many doubts, and ask for daily oral suppressive medicine. I was seen by the same Caucasian doc. Said that the culture test is 100% accurate so don

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Mzrmazda3

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From this, i conclude that the best prevention is to be faithful to one partner [sunny][sunny][sunny] though sometimes the urge to 'Tao Chiat' is so unbearable .... [lipsrsealed][lipsrsealed][lipsrsealed]

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Simply_lex

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this is 1 good thread. A reminder as well as a lesson.

In fact was touched by his wife's replies.

 

Thanks for posting this, pal. thumbsup.gif

 

btw, I think this guy can be a good editor too.

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UncleWolve

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[flowerface] No Prob buddy... i feel we need to go down to basics .. to what really matters ... these days too many $5K $4K salary talk.... [dizzy]

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Chickenfarm

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No Prob buddy... i feel we need to go down to basics .. to what really matters ... these days too many $5K $4K salary talk....

 

Only you bother to entertain tt chew cheng kia in that CB "5K Hopeless" thread [nod] I see his thread I [sleeping][sleeping][sleeping]

 

Can someone ask tt oily twit to get a farking life for heaven's sake [nod] Ooops [lipsrsealed] Nearly forgotten the msg in this thread - No commercial sex!! Okay lah...ask that twit to go toilet PCC can liao...but must wash his oily hands first or else... [sly]

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