En0203 2nd Gear September 6, 2007 Share September 6, 2007 actually i am so quiet that i always like to stay alone, i find it hard to communicate with other ppl coz i don't know what to talk. this is not very healthy i guess ↡ Advertisement Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Minicop Neutral Newbie September 6, 2007 Share September 6, 2007 I see. No wonder, same here. I also talk very little. I guess need to change this. else will be in trouble. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
En0203 2nd Gear September 7, 2007 Share September 7, 2007 (edited) wah u also like that ar like that we very difficult to find gf coz we cannot do sweet talk Edited September 7, 2007 by En0203 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Minicop Neutral Newbie September 7, 2007 Share September 7, 2007 Yes, cannot sweet talk is major problem for getting GF. Sad but true. You can be an axxxxxe but with sweet talk still can land you tonnes of girls. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
En0203 2nd Gear September 8, 2007 Share September 8, 2007 haha no choice lar, cannot do sweet talk then find slowly lor, big deal. we better enjoy our single life 1st Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Minicop Neutral Newbie September 8, 2007 Share September 8, 2007 Yes, agree. Need to enjoy the single life first. Later had GF or Wife cannot do what single life allow. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
En0203 2nd Gear September 10, 2007 Share September 10, 2007 yalor, gf or wife next time sure have one but single life next time cannot have liao Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Minicop Neutral Newbie September 10, 2007 Share September 10, 2007 Well it would depend also. For Ang Moh, married and divorce is like having veges. Very simple and part of their life. Some of them can get married and divorce a lot of time in their life. some of them get married at 70 and divorce again 2 - 3 years down the road. So you can still be single. Wonder does anyone know who hold the world record for the most marriage and divorces? Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lightbringer 6th Gear September 10, 2007 Share September 10, 2007 There are actually successful and eligible bachelors out there whom nobody in their right mind would view as a "loser", yet are partial to the idea of marrying a foreign women without a whirlwind romance and all the jazz hyped up by the media. These are the same successful people who might possess certain life values which might be easily viewed as being archaic or conservative these days, with some going as far as to label these values as being narrow-minded or being an ol' "stick in the mud". They might also refuse to compromise these values of theirs for reasons that they themselves might deem superficial, such as for convenience sake or meeting the expectations of others. These people might have been in the dating game for a long time, or have been involved in a serious relationship, yet are unable to find anybody with life values that align with theirs, or someone who they feel comfortable spending their life with. Yet these same people might want to start their own family before it's too late, as well as to find a life partner as they grow older. They then have 3 choices. They can continue playing the dating game and hope to eventually find somebody whom they feel they can share a genuine relationship with, they can compromise on their expectations and life values and simply settle for somebody "less than perfect", or they actively try to find a women overseas who possess the certain core values that these particular men are seeking in a life partner, even if they might be lacking in certain other attributes (I hesitate to use the word "quality" here), which might in turn pose certain other obstacles. And I'm sure most mature people can easily understand what sort of core values I'm hinting at here. Ultimately, choosing a life partner is a deeply personal choice, as well as being a really complex decision and process. It all boils down to what a person really wants from a wife, a life partner, the mother of his potential children; what a person can or cannot accept (some people might value social acceptance or prestige over their core values or what they think might make them happy, that's their prerogative; others choose the opposite, that's their prerogative too!) and how much they are willing to compromise, and how much they are willing to leave to chance or risk. Sometimes, taking the less beaten path doesn't equates to a better or worse choice - it simply means exactly that - taking the less beaten path in search of what you want in life. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
En0203 2nd Gear September 13, 2007 Share September 13, 2007 haha, don't compare with angmo lar, i think we should take our own sweet time to find someone that really suits us and then be done with it Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Minicop Neutral Newbie September 13, 2007 Share September 13, 2007 Well, I am not trying to compare just that in a lost of cases for SG girls seem to think like that. Well they want the best of both world but don't want the result come with it. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sendoh82 Neutral Newbie September 13, 2007 Share September 13, 2007 no leh..it depends..let say u nid it 10 times a day... 1 time..@ least 40bucks..10 times would be 400bucks... 1 month... so u go do the maths bah marriage def less then 12k a month but of coz..not everybody will do it 10 times a day... coz it realli is tiring lol like if u get married, your wife will give u 10 times a day. she say dont want. u also LL later if u really need 10 times a day. then become rape + divorce = half ur property + monthly installments. which one more jia lat. go do the math ba Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hoppe Clutched September 13, 2007 Share September 13, 2007 I realised that LOVE is a strange thing. It's not easy to fall in love, but it sometimes happens (even if you already married). It's a matter of the heart and causes problems. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gabriel 1st Gear September 14, 2007 Share September 14, 2007 actualli i would be grateful if me got a wife who din wan sex 10 times a day .. coz it realli is too tiring le .... as for the rape+divorce=half ur property + monthly installments... well...that is a reason me chose not to get married at the moment... coz marriage is def gonna kill all my brain cells.. with all this calculation required Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Robin 4th Gear September 14, 2007 Share September 14, 2007 no leh..it depends.. let say u nid it 10 times a day... 1 time..@ least 40bucks..10 times would be 400bucks... 1 month... so u go do the maths bah marriage def less then 12k a month but of coz..not everybody will do it 10 times a day... coz it realli is tiring an innovative way to calculate your breakeven point Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guyver 1st Gear September 14, 2007 Share September 14, 2007 Yah .... love is strange ..... 2 person can be so loving ... but end up like enemy ... Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Minicop Neutral Newbie September 14, 2007 Share September 14, 2007 You never hear that love best friend is hate. Also Chinese saying "When you love too deep, you also hate deep as well". Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guyver 1st Gear September 14, 2007 Share September 14, 2007 So that means ... cannot love to deep?? ↡ Advertisement Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
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